I am going through the similar situation.
I got married in June 2008. We got a baby girl in Feb 2009. Before marriage my in laws told they have their family business of Mfg. ladies clip. But after marriage as i use to visit my in laws i got to know they have lied. On the same month of marriage my wife got a call from the person, from whom she also had taken money (25K) on behalf of her father for engagement expenses. They took money which i had to settle (in part).
In the third month (after marriage) my bro-in-law who is lives in Ahmedabad, called my wife and is asking money (20K) from her for his personal reasons.(Bank statement avbl.) Same month my mom-in-law send my wife her lapsed policy because premium is not paid. It was the second year of the policy. So, to renew the same, i had to pay the said premium along with with penalty and interest for the same. (Docs. avbl.) to avoid loss of 1st premium paid.
My in laws kept on bothering my wife every now and then, but i was thinking they r talking with her, has she is newly wed and has come to my house, must be missing her family members.
After my baby's delivery, i did best possible to take care both my wife and child. (My mother passed 22 years back. I am living with my dad and bro). By the time my baby became 11 months, my wife with the reason that she wants to go to her mothers house for two weeks or so, left my house on Jan 2010 and later kept on avoiding to come back. My mom-in-law and bro-in-law had come to take her.
I told elders of our community, we had arranged meeting and they (elders) told her that after marriage you should be taking care of your husband and family and your elder brother is more responsible to take care of your parents along with your younger sister. My wife says my parents have brought and so i want to take care of them.
Now, my wife and in-laws insists, i should come and stay with them near my in-laws house, but i told them my business and family is here and coming and staying far off is not the right solution. After repeated efforts asking her to join our family, she is not ready and my in-laws have been poisoning her continuously not to even talk to me on phone or avoid any mode of communication with me. They did not even allow me to meet my daughter.
In March 2011 she filed CRPC 125 ...at the time of evidence i have given her Bank's current account statement and her course certificate along with Vehicle Information (RTO cert.) the new scooty she purchased.
She filed petition that she is sitting at home and doing nothing and is helpless and living starvation life and alleged that i am not asking her whereabouts nor asking for my baby. But, contrary to her statement i submitted that she has started travel business since September 2010 and filed the case in March 2011 giving false declaration and taken false oath. Hope it is a clear case of Perjury ...(I want more suggestions on that). My case is on the last step of ARGUMENT to be held in June.
Later, Feb 2012 she filed DV case on me and my 69 years old father who since October has got cheek tumor/cancer and is in his last stage(4th stage). Dr. have clearly told he will not survive for long as his situation is grave. I applied under sec. 21 of DV Act for access to meet my daughter and JFMC granted me permission to meet my daughter in my in-laws house where my wife is residing.Order also states that there is nothing on record to say that such meeting is harmful for applicant or child.
On Sunday i went to meet my daughter at 1 pm but with the help of some crooked people they made criminal conspiracy against me and when i went to my in-laws place with the courts order they did not allow me to meet my daughter and said whatever you want you do, we will not allow you. I called police station and immediately visited to complain that my in-laws are doing contempt of court in spite of the order. (Police station is just 5 minutes by rickshaw).
After 15 - 20 minutes my sis-in-law and mom-in-law came to police station and falsely alleged that i molested my sis-in-law and filed IPC 354 against me. I was locked and next day on Monday by paying Rs. 2000 got the bail. Recently i went on the courts date and got to know in a week time i will get my chargesheet as it is under printing.
Kindly help me as they are playing havoc in my life and spoiling my daughters life also. Applied for change of place for meeting my daughter, but the application was rejected due to the circumstances.Court says you can apply the appropriate forum for custody of your child i.e. to meet her on weekends or so.
Please provide possible suggestion for the same.
