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Gautam Kapoor ( )     18 March 2013

Please advise on divorce

Hi All,

I married on Fri 12 2011. Ours was a Christian marriage. Not a single paisa of dowry was taken or demanded on the contrary I provided her everything
,performing her delivery here in Singapore,saving her life from pregnancy complications (PPH), providing air tickets to her mother ,providing a nurse and so on.. the list is endless. I have the necessary bills. I have made her 2 insurances.Sending money to her via western union.
 
Within 1 year  we were blessed with a son.
 
My wife was in an affair before n after marriage, which I found out via sms messages.She is abusive whenever her acts are caught and cuts her body and mine whenever she is cornered.After her acts were caught there were constant fights.

My wife left me on 09 Sep 2012. She was 3 months pregnant at that time.

She and her sister quarrelled with me and left Singapore to India. 11 Sep 2011 ,she operated the bank locker (Locked opened in her name by me),stole jewellery worth 10,00,000.
I filed for divorce on 12th Sep 2012 under the grounds of cruelty.They did not contest the case and the decree is to be passed on march 28th 2013 (Nearly 7 months)
 
In between she her father constantly SMSed me and sent me emails but never mentioning about the child in the womb.I knew they had aborted my child.
 
His father in a last ditch attempt came to our house on 22nd Dec 2012 and when asked what happened to the child in the womb .. she shamelessly remarked .. I kicked her in the stomach so she got aborted.
 
The cruel people still had the heart to reconcile but left when they saw me in mood to reconcile.

They went to Vizag and filed false DV case on me and my family  (we are callled for counselling on April 04 2013) and also claimed maintenace.
 
Under ths situation please can you guide me on the following.
 
-> More one week to go can they contest the divorce case.My evidence is on mar 28 2013.
-> Is DV maintable currently and is it maintable after the decree of divorce.
-> What is amount of maninteance they can demand.Im willing to take custody of my child but very certain that they will not leave him.She has a PHD in Genetics (USA) and used to work in US and India.
-> Their family is richer than us.
-> I have 4 small brothers who i got married ,a mother , a deaf n dumb brother and sister in law who i need to take care of.
-> What are the chances of me getting custody of the child at this juncture.
 
Please advise.


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Shonee Kapoor (Legal Evangelist - TRIPAKSHA)     18 March 2013

 

-> More one week to go can they contest the divorce case.My evidence is on mar 28 2013.
SHE CAN BECOME PARTY TO THE DIVORCE AT ANYTIME BEFORE THE DECREE IS PASSED. SO DON'T COUNT ON IT MUCH.
 
-> Is DV maintable currently and is it maintable after the decree of divorce.
YES. IT IS MAINTAINABLE.
 
-> What is amount of maninteance they can demand.Im willing to take custody of my child but very certain that they will not leave him.She has a PHD in Genetics (USA) and used to work in US and India.
SPECULATIVE QUERY.
 
-> Their family is richer than us.
THIS IS OF NO CONSEQUENCE.
 
-> I have 4 small brothers who i got married ,a mother , a deaf n dumb brother and sister in law who i need to take care of.
THIS IS YOUR LIABILITY. HOWEVER, IF THEY ARE ADULTS, THEN IT IS DIFFICULT FOR YOU TO GET ANY REPRIEVE ON THIS ISSUE/
 
-> What are the chances of me getting custody of the child at this juncture.
THAT WOULD DEPEND UPON HOW YOU FIGHT THE CASE.
 

 

Regards,
 
Shonee Kapoor
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If you don't fight for what you want, don't cry for what you LOST.
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Rama chary Rachakonda (Secunderabad/Highcourt practice watsapp no.9989324294 )     18 March 2013

 the wife has been capable of
earning but she was not making an effort to earn. Whether the
deserted wife was unable to maintain herself, has to be
decided on the basis of the material placed on record. Where
the personal income of the wife is insufficient she can claim
maintenance under Section 125 Cr.P.C. The test is whether
the wife is in a position to maintain herself in the way she was
used to in the place of her husband"

498aVictim (Engineer)     19 March 2013

Hi,

Don't loose your heart.

After issues are framed in your Divorce case, the wife cannot file reply (Written Statement) that easily to counter your claims and relief sought in the petition. The stage to file reply is over and you can put strong resistence to prevent her from filing reply.  Don't give up easily. If you wan to know the Sections, etc. that prohibts her from filwing W.S. now, drop a question here.


Now, she may join the proceedings to challenge your evidence. But if you are submitting Documentary Evidence to support your claim and relief, she cannnot counter them by Oral Statement. Oral statements are barred when Documentary Evidence are present. So in nutshell, if you have strong documentary evidence, her oral statement will not weaken or impact your case.

 

Section 125 CrPC reads as below:

(1) If any person leaving sufficient means neglects or refuses to maintain-

(a) his wife, unable to maintain herself, or

(b) his legitimate or illegitimate minor child, whether married or not, unable to maintain itself, or

(c) his legitimate or illegitimate child (not being a married daughter) who has attained majority, where such child is, by reason of any physical or mental abnormality or injury unable to maintain itself, or

(d) his father or mother, unable to maintain himself or herself,

 

A Magistrate of' the first class may, upon proof of such neglect or refusal, order such person to make a monthly allowance for the maintenance of his wife or such child, father or mother, at such monthly rate1[***] as such magistrate thinks fit, and to pay the same to such person as the Magistrate may from time to time direct::

 

I want to draw attention to the line - A Magistrate of' the first class may, upon proof of such neglect or refusal, order such person...

 

The onus or burden to proof for negllect/refusal to maintain is on the wife. Typically in false caes, party has only oral evidence to support their allegation but oral statement is not admissible if  documentary evidence is available to counter the allegation (that you have refused to maintain her or neglegted to mainatin her). Depending on what evidence you have, you may easily satisy the Court that her claim is a false one.

 

If your cause is based on truth, there are ample legal provisions to prevent some false mala fide person take advantage of you. The laws in India are one of the best ones in the world, but the irony is that they are also being worst followed and applied in the procedure and that's why people loose faith in the Court and System.

 

All the best.

Vishal (2nd year law)


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