I am 42 yrs old, frm pune. married since 1992, wife filed a divorce case in dec 2012 my avg income is 5 lacs last year and 7 lacs this yr. this i recieved in chq reflecting in my bank. though i have nt filed ny return. got a flat. jointly owned by me/my wife. today costing around 60 lacs. though i am paying the instalments which is 15.5k now p/m. I was in regular jon till 2009, but lost job and after no income and job fr one year started real estate business frm past 3 yrs.
we have two sons aged 18 and 14 in
My wife works in bpo sector from last eight years, her salary is 35k p.m.. her claims are that i have been cruel. beaten her and got adultry issues. she needs the maintaince of 50 k p/m frm me. and prompting to sell the house the give her 50% immediately
where in in real she has just claimed this to file a divorce case.. where in the reality is just on a petty issue she left home with the elder son and rented a house since april 2012. though after a few days of strain we started meeting nd talking. we regularly use to have s*x and outings and i use to buy regular gifts to her. since may i have been calling her back. bt she came with a strange demand tht transfer the house in full in my name. tht too i accepted, but she conditioned it tht first u do then will cme. which i refused. so she cud nt cme to stay. in sept. i found her roaming with another guy. as i asked her to send kids so i will buy gift nd dresses. she said she is in office for extra work though it was sunday. i said am coming to meet u as kids wil take time to b ready. she was not in the office as it was her off.. she was roaming with a man in a theatre. she came and accepted or rather told all on her own. i called tht guy.... bt she absconded... and stopped talking to her. she again become normal .
we had two hearings and two conselling sessions. in three occasions we went together in my car.. after thta had lunch and s*x too...
bt since last month things become bad and non communicative.
My questions are... Can court force me to sell my flat and give her money... my son 14yrs stay with me... rates of the property are on a increasing trend..so i dnt want to sell it. but can i b forced to sell it
i dnt have a regular income. but managing emi of flat ( 15.5 k) and emi of car ( 4.5k) where in she has a regular income of 35k. can they force me to pay her alimony of a one time money.. as i may not have more then 5 lacs as savings.
thirdly the reality is she has strayed not me. i found out tht her story was gooing on frm past 2 yrs, her whole office was aware of it. so on a minor fight she left the house. tht guy use to visit her rental flat on many occasions which both my sons had confirmed. i havnt seen the person till date.
its not only a deep emotional tragedy for me.. as we have stayed in loving relation for 22 yrs... we had courtship of 2 yrs. i feel betrayed..as well this traumatic feel and the finacial issues she is creating and threatening has made me bad nd worse.
plz guide and help...
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