Without divorce second marriage/live in relationshi

NOT only your Mother and father nobody would support you!

You have all rights to go for contested Divorce, that is the way to make clean exist.

But this sounds something fishy!! Please beware. if decision talken already, yOur second thought would be too late.

hi nirali,

your thoughts are very rational. and i do agree with you, however one thing i would like to tell you, first mistake you are doing here, why have you revealed your real name here.? dont you feel that someone of your knowing or your husbands knowing might just stumble upon your query here and even before you do your illegal marriage or relationship you might be busted/

you can do a secret live in relationship but remember to keep it very very secret. dont reveal it to anyone and dont get it registered. no photographs and no meeting at public places.....

अरे निरल मम फेस करो इसे पति को रास्ते पर लाओ सब ठीक हो जायेगा एक एशिया उजाड़ कर दूसरा बनाने की कोशिश न करो , जिंदिगी को सही ट्रैक पर चलने दो हो सकता है पति कही परेशां हो इसलिए ऐसा हो रहा हो थोडा समझ कर काम करो उसे समझो सब ठीक होगा सात साल से साथ रहे हो दोनों बहुत लम्बा समय होता है , सात दिनों के दोस्त  सच्चा हमदर्द नहीं बन सकता जितनी कोशिश नयी जिन्दगी के लिए करोगी उतनी अपने पति को लाइन पर लाने के लिए करो सब ठीक हो जायेगा.

अगर बहुत ही जादा हालात बिगड़ गए है तो आपसी समझोता कर तलाक ले लो , कोर्ट की शरण में जाओ. अपनी बात रखो , मार पीट की नौबत आ गयी हो तो सबूत के साथ पुलिस में जाओ , जो करो लीगली करो डंके की चोट पर करो चोरी छिपे नहीं , सही होकर जो करोगी तो शांति अपने आप मिलेगी नहीं तो फिर नयी प्रॉब्लम के साथ यही सलूशन मांगने या तलाशने आना होगा सो ट्राई योर बेस्ट गुड लक

Dear Nirali

Beware

Your Friend misguide you. Smthing is hidden in his heart which not disclse due to any fear.

You attract to another man its prove yur family life is not well standing.

Don't destroy your matrimonial life.

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If you think that only you are right than you can get divrce n cruelty grounds. But if your husband contested than it will take about 3 year period.

Choice is yours.

Go for divorce and then choose to be in any life, live in relation ship or marriage. Its your choice. Live in relation ship won't work longer. Ask your friend will he marry you in future?? Then decide. already your parents are not supporting to you. if you are earning good amount of money. are they enought if no body will support you, keeping all these factors in mind and then decide....to proceed further.

Don't marry w/o divorce and don't choose live-in. It is a dangerous path, you and your partner can get into many legal troubles.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

Quite a few things before you could take the final leap:

1.  So many years of marriage, good or bad, and now you thinking of adultery without getting divorce.  That aint fair.

2.  Husband willing to continue with marriage shows that he still does care.

3.  You guys need a good counselling session, go for it.

4.  Being woman, if you want divorce, given the facts, it may be impossible for you to get a divorce as husband is not willing to let you go.

5.  Decisions taken in a mood and time where you are not able to see the future, have proven to be doomsday for many.  So please do think before you leap.