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Sir i am vibhor goel who loves a girl Swati Sharma since 6 years  and she too loves me a lot truely.. hum dono ne 30May 2012 ko Court mein shaadi ki hmare pass Arya Samaj ka marriage certificate bhi hai. Hum dono ne decide kar ke 1 july ko apne ghr walon ko is schai ko bataya k hm dono shaadi kar chuke h aur saath jeena chahte hain.. but uske ghrwale nhi maane aur uske pariwar wale double game khel rhe hain Mujhse to kehte hain ki agr swati tere saath rehna chahti h to hm khusi khusi bhej denge lekin dusri trf vo us par pressure bana re h ki agr tu vibhor k saath gayi to hum sb zeher kha k mar jayenge.. Isi wajha se meri patni mere pass nhi aa paa rhi h,,, maine aur mere pariwar walon ne bhut koshish ki unko smjhane ki k jab bacche shaadi kar chuke h saath jeena chahte h to phr gussa karke kiya fayda ... Aap Swati ko ashirwad de kar humare saath bhej dijiye humne aur kuch nahi (DAHEJ)nahi chahiye hum apne bete vibhor ki patni swati ko ek jodi kapdo mein bhi le jane ko tyaar hain. but vo log nhi maan rhe meri patni ko jabardsti pressure bana k apne ghar mein bitha rakha h... Pure 3 months se mujhe meri patni Swati ki koi khabar nahi h k vo kha h kaisi h aur jab mai baar baar un logon se apni patni k baare mein punchta hu pata karta hu to vo log kuch nahi batate aur meri patni ko mentally aur emotionally pressurised karke humare khilaf dahej maangne ki ek jhuti complaint bhi likhwai hai... Mai Police, Court,Media puri duniya k saamne ye sach bolne ko tyaar hu k mujhe un logon se koi dahej nahi chahiye meri patni bas ek jodi kapdon mein chahiye. Mere gharwalon ne kbhi dahej ki koi maang nahi ki so sach bolne se mujhe koi dar nahi h k mai bas apni patni chahta hu koi dahej nahi...un logon ne Swati pe pressure daal kar ye b likhwaya k maine Swati se forcefully shaadi ki h ... lekin mere pass to swati k bheje hue messages ab bhi save hain jismein usne khud likha h k " hum shaadi kab kar rhe hain, Mai aapse shaadi karna chahti hu, aapke saath jeena chahti hu ,mujhe please yha se le jaiye ab aapke bina nahi rha jata" etc etc aise bhut saare messages h jo usne last september 2011  se May 2012  tak mujhe kiya the. agr un messages ko as a supporting proof ki tarhan maana jaye to ye bhi sabit ho jayega k usne apni marzi se mujhse shaadi ki h... vo log meri patni ki shaaadi khi aur bhi karna chahte hain but meri patni ne bol dia h k "mai vibhor ki patni hu aur zindgi bhar uski patni rhungi mar jaungi but kisi aur se shaadi nhi krungi chahe zindgi bhar mujhe yhaan roke rkho". Mujhe apni patni pe pura vishwas h but uske gharwalon pe nhi.. vo log meri patni ko leke khin aur chle gaye hain.. Please un sbko smjhane mein meri help ki jiye k ek shaadi shuda ladki ko uske pati k ghar jaane de puri izzat k sath.aaj ke time mein bhi  un logon ka kehna h ki hm apni biradri mein kiya bolenge hmari dusri beti ki shaadi kaise krenge.. mai to ye tak krne ko tyaar hu k phele apni dusri beti ki shaadi kr dijiye phir meri patni ko mere pass bhej dijiyega aur rhi baat biradri ki to kya ek shaadi shuda ladki ko ghar pe baithaye rakhne mein biradri ko jwab nhi dena padega?Please kuch help kijiye.... bataiye mai kiya krun kase apni patni ko puri izzat k saath bhejne ko un sbko manau.... Mai apni Shaadishuda life ko tutne nahi dena chahta coz mai is rishte ki bhut respect krta hu....



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     05 October 2012

There are two ways to look to your issues;

One way – She is under sentimental / emotional read with social pressures and for that suggest to go to media / social websites / meet a seasoned social standing person in your locality for help.

Other way – If you know where you have posted your question then be it heard that your option is very limited and they are as follows;

- Via reference hire an advocate OR via database search at LCI hire one.

- File Habeas Corpus Petition in State’s High Court to produce your wife and upon her production if she says she likes to return to her matrimonial home then she will be sent then and there with you to her matrimonial home. And if she says NO for whatever reasons then suggested to file application for divorce and serve upon her residence address Divorce Notice (on exceptional circumstances grounds).

- OR file an Writ of Mandamus in State’s High Court and she will naturally be produced and if she says YES then STATE protection will be given to both of you and your family from her family’s side and both you may lead married life.

Discuss with hired advocate out of above two legal suggestions and act accordingly.

There is no third option available to you is my view.

Get above translated into hinglish which you may then understand and act accordingly

 

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