Dear Memebers,
Kindly guide the through foolowing situation before 498a trial ..
My wife and me are separated since the day (05 may 2008) she filed 498a case on me and my relatives. Also my matrimonial house is in her possession and she has filed after thsi 2 more criminal cases against me . My mother tried very hard to get back her Gondia House for which she was paying EMI but not succed due to Gunda elements of my wife. At last, my mother sold that house.
During 498a case trial judge has called both of us and asked for mediation. My wife replied with yes but i was hesitating to do so (as my wife doing acting in front of him ). But to stop symapthy to her i also agrred for mediation. In our first meeting she has various undue demands and very first day gave 125 maintenece case notice to me.
During 1st & 2nd mediation meeting she has demand like i) seprate alternative house (apart from my Mummy's Gondia house which in her possession since last 4 years even if my mother is paying EMI of house loan) ii) Girl staying with my mother shall give statement of no relationship with me and iii) mother will not stay . I replied i will take her to Nagpur instead of Gondia and shall make arrangments in rented house and also i can not forrce anybody to call to gondia court and give statement (After all its the matter of her dignity also). If court can suggest any other method then it is OK to me. But after this she did not appeared in 2nd and 3rd meeting. Mediation judge has not submited the failure report as this case was not forwarded to him in writing. So, Failure on her fault not submitted.
After this I was again ready that the case will run but on this 14th Feb, judge asked for the status of mediation and my wife replied that she was not aware of dates. Then Judge asked why don't you go with him then she started crying and told that they have sold the house and therefore she need new house. on thus judge replied whereever your husband stays you have to stay with him. She also told him that if he through me again then where shall i go? Then she again told that I am having a relationship with Girl , staying with my mother and also has a kid. Then judge looked at me, i replied she laying and making false allegations. she again demanded that that girl should come here in Gondia and give statement in writing of no relationship. Then judge turned upto me and aksed me to remove this her doubt call to that girl and told her to give statement. i replied i will try sir. Then again judge asked us to go for mediation with another district judge and sent our case instantly in writing. Then again she has same demands and story in front of mediation judge . Then judge asked me to take her to Nagpur first and start living at leat for 15 -20 days and then give feedback to him. I was little bit confused at that moment i said yes (as i was confirm that she will come with any reason/demand to derail the mediation).
But don't no what will happer next, even if i will try to take her Nagpur and if she comes, she will blackmail me each day and definately give Negative feedback to mediation judge and again repeat the story of my relationship with that Girl. As there is loss of trust and she is with dirty mind.
Also our separation of last 3 years shall come to an end and i will be more succeptible for her furter case of DV (for sure) and many more. Already my wife filed total 3 cases in Gondia and Nagpur and . or Shall I deny in mediation on grounds that there is loss of trust or take a known risk.
Kindly suggest any other startegy to tackle the situation. with regards,
Rajesh Nagpure 9922954930
