I m stuck in a strange problem. I m in love with a girl for 3 years. We love each other deeply. She had a boyfriend before we met who suddenly disappeared. Now he returns and says he was suffering from blood cancer and thats why he left. My girlfriend's parents want her to marry this boy(he is somewhat better now). She also wants to marry him,but more out of pity than love. She thinks the boy is not well and needs her for the time being. But again she says that she cant live without me and will come back to me after 4-5 years giving him divorce once the boy is better. She believes the boy will not hold her back then once he hears the entire story and will let her have a mutual. I have agreed to wait for her. She and that boy are going in for a court marriage shortly. Now, before that, we want to have some sort of bonding between us and so we are thinking of marriage in the ARYA SAMAJ. We want this marriage not as a legal stamp but purely for our own mental satisfaction. now my question:
If we marry in the arya samaj,will it be automatically registered? Imean,will she get caught when she goes for court marriage with that boy bcoz we are already married at the arya samaj? I certainly dont want that. Plz help.
