have been married for almost 4 yrs with 2 yrs old lovely daughter.
Marriage has not been smooth for me due to adjustment problems with my wife. It was merely after 3-4 months that her dislike to stay with my family came up. Complaints against my parents were regular. Then she started staying with me separately as I was posted for job away from my home town.
Still the complaints against my parents continued as I used to visit them once in 2 months. My mother used to come to see us once in 6 months only return home more humiliated by my wife. Initially I could not stand the humiliation and used to shout a long on my wife. Later I corrected my self prefer remaining quiet during a fight. Never did I physically abuse her. The worst I did was to hold her hand tighty.
Abusive languages still exist and my only way of protest now is to remain silent and not talk to her or have s*x with her. This goes upto 4-5 days at a stretch. She still intimidates my with abusive language with " having s*x with my brother/sister" , Spineless , Charecterless who sleep with other women, " many more. She has a habbit of shouting , throwing and breaking things when angry. I have proof that she droped the TV set off the stand, throw my newly bought mobile. I have picture of room scatered with books and other things. She even provokes me to hit her and that she would call the police. I do not know how long will I be able to handle this silently and fear that I may loose my cool one day and assult her which will surely have adverse effects and I may land up in Jail. I am not sure that I want a divorce but surely would know what are the legal options open for me.
I am not able to bear this torture any further. Please advice.
Regards
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