Marriage related help

do you want to take divorce? you do not have any ground for divorce. do not think to file divorce. rather talk to your wife. go for counseling, 

you should not think any legal step, as you do not have any legal wayout. just if they interfere in ur life, just try to collect evidences, for example if you give them money then do not give them cash, rather transfer in their bank account, or deposit in their bank account urself, and preserve the slips with you. 

IF you give them gifts, try to purchase by cheque, 

 

Originally posted by : Khush
	do you want to take divorce? you do not have any ground for divorce. do not think to file divorce. rather talk to your wife. go for counseling,  you should not think any legal step, as you do not have any legal wayout. just if they interfere in ur life, just try to collect evidences, for example if you give them money then do not give them cash, rather transfer in their bank account, or deposit in their bank account urself, and preserve the slips with you.  IF you give them gifts, try to purchase by cheque,  Thanks for reaching back. Divorce is not an option, my wife will not go for it. All I want is a legal way to ensure that my kids and family stay out of the ambit of my inlays manipulations. Is that possible? Some court agreed arrangement  to counter interactions and infractions. By the way we do not have any kids yet... Thanks...

 

taking up a job in a different city is an option you may consider.

In today's world switch of city would not matter much. All I want is to ensure that I can prevent my family and kids from facing what my wife is facing. Is there a legal way to ensure that. 

thanks

legally what you can do? if your in laws want to meet your wife which law can stop them? and she is cohabiting with you, so you can't even complain on that front. frankly i don't feel law can help you out in this situation. this is a purely personal problem requiring out of the box personal solutions. so put on your thinking cap brother!

thanks... so its that bad. will have to face it then. Thank you

It's not a legal problem. It's only a problem which can be sort out by you and your wife. As far as your wife support , trust and love you nothing her parents can do. Can you share some incident which make you to think that her family is dominating and manipulating? Marriage is based on trust and understanding. If trust and understanding between you both have no third one can interfere in your family.

1. "Either I file a lawsuit or I have to face it." Life is not black and white. There are many ways that are in between these two extremes.
2. Every family is dysfunctional in their own unique way. We tend to be blind to our own imperfections and put magnifying glass to other people's imperfections. 
3. Consult a family therapist before consulting a lawyer.

Thanks "A walk alone" and "Vibha" for suggestions. Sharing family problems here was not my intention. My intention was to see if I can seek out a legal way to get a commitment or contract that ensures that my terms are met in the marriage. Probably not using the right terms but in general sense wanted to know if such a thing is possible (like a prenuptial agreement).

thanks

Read

https://books.google.ae/books?id=gt0rW68JF3YC&lpg=PT28&ots=MQJflqQjOQ&dq=conversation%20with%20god%3Aevents%20occur%20in%20the%20universe&pg=PT27#v=onepage&q&f=false

 

Particular passage about events.

Ref: Prenuptial agreement is not a legal document in India. And morover nuptials already done (pre is the keyword)

Save marriage is best way to protect loved one, including your wife.