krishnamurthy 30 September 2016

Marriage issues

Hi Experts

Request your help / guidance on the below challenge faced by mis sister-in-law

She is an Engineer and married to nurse (Brother) working in a Govt hospital in Delhi. It is a love marriage and it has been 4 year now. From the past few months there is a fight in the family. This man is now having a affair with another lady in the same hospital and my sister - in - law has comne to know about this. When asked about this to him, he is claiming as there is nothing like this and they are just friends. She has some some images of his facebook messanger where they are talking about Love You, Kiss U stuff. After she has showed those messages to him, he has erassed all these from the messanger and also decativated his facebook and other socal networks.

He is now not ready to stay with her and she has come back to her mother (father expired few years back) house. Now she is not sure on what to do. She has a job in Delhi and she is trying to get it transferred to her native so that she can leave safe (as he has threatened to kill her on phone) for sometime.

Need suggestion on

(She is currently not intrested in claiming for Divorce)

1) What are the action that she can take to secure her life. can she make a complaint in her hospital and ask for some help?

2) Can she also claim a part of his salary for her lively hood (as the other girl is behind him for just money and making him to spend every day and by not having money in his hand ..she may dump him and go)

Please suugest if any other options as well; as she has the hope that once he dont have money the girl will leave him and he will come back to her...

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Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate) 30 September 2016

She can seek maintenance from him provided she has no sufficient means to support her and that doesn't seems to be the case. She can only get assurance from him about good behaviour, his employer is in no manner involved in the personal marital matter between both of them.

Trapti 30 September 2016

1. If your sister in law does not want divorce then she can file a complaint of domestic violence against her hudband. Because her husband threaten her and having extra meraital affair and he do not want to stay with her also, she has valid reasons to file a domestic violence complaint, running away to some other place is not the solution her husband is not up to law. 2.Because she is working and earning a good ammount , she can not ask money for her maintenance but if they have kids from this marriage then she can ask for kids maintenance, and she has righ to live in her husband's house if she wants place to live. Her stridhan is also her right. 3. And my advice is to u that please cunsult a good advocate in this case. Thanks

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Matrimonial issues have one solution = ADJUST. CANT ADJUST? GO FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE IN STEAD OF WASTING PRECIOUS YOUNG YEARS IN COURTS SEEKING MAINTENANCE TAKING REVENGE AGAINST EACH OTHER. REST ALL ADVISE IS WASTE, N ALL EXERCISE IS FUTILE. BE AWARE ADULTERY CANNOT BE PROVED AT ALL.

Mukesh sharma (job ) 30 September 2016

Hi krishan if your sis in law not want to live with her and not intersted to claim for divorce than she can file for maintiance case in court and and another here

as yu mention he call to your sis in law and give her threaten than you go to police and file complaint for this kind of and keep all cal record when he do same and show them to police

you save them for your court case when you want to file divorce than it will help you in divorce

other as you said she seeking help from his workplace but they culd not help you in this matter coz its his personal matter so nobody interfare in this

A walk alone (-) 01 October 2016

Dnt waste your sister in law life in roaming courts. If marriage fail or not work better go MCD. By roaming court your sister in law will never got anything. No court no law can force her husband to live with her. As she is already working chances of getting maintenance is very less. Ask her to go MCD. I know its hard but time will heal all wounds. By roaming courts she will only waste money and time. Family issues can never be solve in courts. Lawyer may suggest your sister in law to file many cases because by that they get money . people who suggest her to file any case will only enjoy her live telecast family drama . Chances of proving adultery is also very less.