DEAR AMBi,
Any way you can down load chat and SMS which are accepted in the court and can be a tool for cross examination and you can make him to appear in the court for cross examination and he can be extradited if he wants to escape if he is still an indian citizen.
if not indian citizen it may be some problem and even then we can make representations to the foreign government to send him to india to face trial.
And yet it is preferable to marry a spouse who is in fact compatible that compatibility is possible if the interactions invariably that are face to face instead of internet chats or sms but youth today spend on chats as SMS may be easy but truth is compatibility cannot be better assessed in indirect methods as life is not a robotic.
And yet we are in new age of internet experiment today.
there we involve our lives not clearly knowing how to use the internet medium very properly but in fact we get first just locked in because it is very fast transmission that way life canot be submitted at all but yet we submit today that is the very problem unlike past regular letter writing where we have been editing our thought lines as several times first thoughts are invarably crude and cannot be full finesee at all that cause the problems in lives of people.
Any way life is like a great glass that none can afford to break and if broken it cannot be mended fot for attachment that way several divorses surface and the santity of marriage as an institution is dying a natural death that is the bane.
Life is not just a bed of roses with fine thornes but today it is sme kind of rash bushy thorns that terribly injure lives, besides today youth suffer from work stress enormously unlike in the past though in the past work was not any easier but people were very patient than today though by several degrees of incompatible statements, after all words very carelessly administered that effects theraputic effect a word can provide that way married life continued several decades and life was indeed happier though take home moneys were no consequence then but today we run for inconsequential moneys as the monies are eveything that is where lives get mangled to suh an extent smooth life becomes a casuality for ever.
Anyway we cannot control as our preferences advantages changed in a most metamorphic way today unless we control our minds that life is much more important than pelf and comforts and once realized life becomes a bliss till one lives else we just go on experimenting for ever and many till end really miss the boat of bliss for that bliss is this life but we lost that bliss is the real fact. for ever
No laws and rules can give any meaningful life at all.
when advoate interferes your life just gets rattled for ever that is the real fact with due respects to legal profession.
My best advice is just try your best to patch up so too your spouse also need to reconsider for a meaningful bliss of married life in a most soft way posible.
life is to be lived and by all means not to be shattered, after all there are bound to be differences betwen spouses but that need not upset the bliss if one understands the strands of hrudya veena ( veena strings of heart) so it is not mind but just heart beats of rhythum of life that is married life is it not if you seriouy look into heart beats .
so vital is is not mind but hearty feelings o heart if spousesealize earlier the better and that cannot be appreciated by by third party however nice that third party is.. regards, adv.dr balakrishna rapidanalysts@gmail.com advocate (Original side) Bombay high court
