Follow "C" from below boom - bam - bang pun of being Indian Men
So, you are a man and you want to have a "relationship" in India in the 21st century. Keep reading.
This is the minefield that you are looking to traverse. You need to ask yourself whether the "treasure" at the end is really worth it.
1. You pay attention to a woman at work. Bam! Sexual Harassment.
2. You pay attention to a woman outside work. Bam! Eve teasing.
3. You love a woman but are not ready for marriage. Bam! Rape with promise to marry.
4. You love a woman but you and her have a disagreement. Bam! Cruelty! PWDVA! Maintenance!
5. You marry a woman and you have a disagreement. Bam! IPC 498A, IPC 406, Dowry Prohibition Act, CrPC 125, HMA 24, PWDVA, Marital Rape.
6. You want to have a drink at home while your wife disagrees? Get ready for charges of physical violence and cruelty and rape under the influence of alcohol.
7. You want to leave your wife. You must be a masochist. Bam Bam Bam! IPC 498A, IPC 406, Divorce based on cruelty against you, Dowry Prohibition Act, CrPC 125, HMA 24, PWDVA, Marital Rape, Share in property and your money, Alimony, ...
8. You want to leave a woman with whom you've had a child. You must be suicidal. IPC 498A, IPC 406, Divorce based on cruelty against you, Dowry Prohibition Act, CrPC 125, HMA 24, PWDVA, Marital Rape, Share in property, sole custody of children, no visitation rights, maintenance, alimony, living
expenses, parental alienation syndrome for your chlidren.
Your choices:
A. Become gay, have a relationship with a man. It is now legal.
B. Undergo a s*x-change operation and become a woman and THEN have a relationship with a man or a woman.
C. Go to Nevada in the US or Thailand and be entertained.
D. Listen to Hon'ble Supreme Court of India and become a servile husband. If your wife says look right, look right, if she says look left, look left.
E. Pay lawyers and become a clerk with the paperwork and buy a photocopier for them.
This is war. Is your blood boiling yet? Will you be a man, or be a pale shadow of a man?
F. Fight back. Be a commando. Fight for your brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, and your fellow sufferers in this regime of legal terrorism. Fight for your rights. Do not seek peace, seek equality and victory.
"Cowards die many times before their deaths, The valiant never taste of death but once."
Copyright "Harmanjit Singh" :-)
Now my serious take on your que.: I can understand the sad part you and your family went through some 3 yrs back, but had you not given the alimony and instead faught back this question would not have haunted you even after 3 years, however now it is time to look for next 'relationship' so go ahead and all the very best. Since no communication from last 3 years post MCD so chances of "price index rise" based re-opening alimony chapter are less and last suggestion is not to use your real name in open forum to ask the que. least SHE is still hanging around :-)
Once again sincere all the best for following para "c" now.
Rgds
