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Sanjana   12 January 2017

Fir quashed and husband deserted

I got married in 2016 and 6 months since then my husband was harassing me mentally and physically because we got to know he told lies at the time of wedding and is unemployed from 2 years.Unable to take this harassment anymore i lodged an FIR on him for 498(A). After a month he came to us and apologised and gave us an undertaking stating he would not do any sort of violence and will get a job and look after the family well. Believing this i agreed to get the FIR quashed. So he filed a petition in highcourt and i provided my consent also to continue for quashing. However, the judge was too strict and in his order copy he stated that immediately or in the near future after this petition is quashed if the husband withdraws from the society of the respondent(wife) the quash petition will be revoked and criminal proceedings will be reviwed and based on this condition the petition is allowed. After this my husband called me home and i joined him back .After couple of weeks he started abusing me and my family for lodging an FIR and even said that he reconciled only for FIR to be quashed and his intention is to get divorce. Later without any fear he started beating me and even demanding me to get a flat and gold ornaments from my parents ( i have all this in whatsapp message).One day he kicked me thrice on the stomach  and i tried to commit suicide which video he recorded. In the video i am so distressed and said that he is the reason for me to take this step. He now says that using this video he will prove me mentally ill  and suicidal to seek divorce even without spending a rupee as compensation. I kept reminding him of the high court order copy but he says no court can catch me this time and law ,police are all crooked ( all this in text messages). A week later he created ruckus at home and sent me home after snatching the house keys. In whatsapp text messages he even went on typed to get married to a SC or ST who will lick my feet . Although i don't belong to this caste how can he speak so bad about some community just because he is a brahmin? and all this in whatsapp message. I currently stay at my parents house and i do not know what i can do next. What is the best way to tackle this rascal and bring him to books ?

I don't intend to live with him anymore but he clearly cheated us again to get his FIR quashed and get away with his violence.



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 4 Replies

AMAN KONARK MODI   13 January 2017

ONE IS HAPPY WITH FIGHT IT IS BEETTER FOR YOUR PEACE GET SEPARATED BY DIVORCE AND YOU ARE LADY BECOME SELF DEPENDENT ON YOURSELF AND BE LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE DONOT DEPEND ON OTHERS LEAVE THE SOCIETY WHAT THAT SAY.

DO HARD WORK EARN THE JOB OR LIVELIHOOD BY YOUR OWN TALENT AND LIVE LIKE FREE BIRD .

GEETA SAAR

LEAVE THE PASTA AND HIM

Sanjana   13 January 2017

Autohide4u: people come to such forums to seek legal help so that u instill confidence in them. Because of people like you many rascals walk scott free because you dont lend help and encourage people to come forward and pursue it. Have you read my case? how much a person can cheat .According to you punishing a murder is also waste of time .  I do not know if you are a legal expert or someone here to misguide and hurt people who are already hurt. Anyway before my hair turns white or not you are surely turning your hair white by making useless comments on this forum.I appreciate if you can mind your own business and not respond to my query.

AMAN KONARK MODI   16 January 2017

be sanjana become self dependent live in peace, in judiciary there is lot of money time and lot of suffer is alos their the money you waste there utilize in your self development

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naveen (business)     16 January 2017

Sanjana, I can understand ur pain and mental condition when hurted with no faults. In India legal battle take longer duration and its waste of energy, money, health own future. Its Better settle issue amicably and come out any such relationship where u don't have happiness, love, care and peace of mind. Its worth to find someone who can cares and loves u life long instead of teaching lesson to somebody else. For any suggestions: 09886860126

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