What you want from your life........??
Only punishment for your husband or a peaceful life ahead?
what is your achievements and goal in your life?
Have you ever imagined what's your purpose of life,as life is only one?
Have you ever sense the beauty of hapiness and forgiveness to lead peaceful and prospectful life ahead?
Have you ever imagine the life with a hell or a life with a your desire?
Just work on these above questions you will be relaxed and know the meaning of life.
My opinion: Those who are anxious to teach a lesson to her/husband their life got ruined better move on with a peaceful settlement and part away amicably,who knows your life will be more happier ahead than what's going today....