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Police complaint by extranged wife

(Querist) 14 January 2019 This query is : Resolved 
Sir, I'm working in foreign country. My wife who estranged 3 yrs ago, filed a complaint in all women police station. They enquired my parents and relatives in local and got in writing that they will bring me to India within 2 months and till such time will pay maintenance amount to wife and grandson.

Then we sent a letter to SP office stating we need copy of complaining and the written document they got by complusion.

Now we rec'd letter from police station that they will not give complaint copy without complainants permission and failing to adhere the written contents, they will take legal action.
Pls guide me how to face this.
Isaac Gabriel (Expert) 14 January 2019
Query raised without facts.Neverthless agreeing to pay maintenance without any court order is not advisable.
Dr J C Vashista (Expert) 15 January 2019
The facts given in the query are insufficient to form an opinion and oblige you.
What are the allegations stated to have been mentioned by your wife, as told by your other family members who have already joined police investigation/ proceeding ?
It would be better to consult and engage a local prudent lawyer for better appreciation of facts, guidance and proceeding.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 15 January 2019
You have received written reply from police and probably IT is under under original seal and signature of competent police official.

Probably you have not pursued RTI route.
So far court has not decided the maintenance.
Hope otherwise you are providing adequate funds/provisions for maintaining your spouse and have irrefutable evidences and unshakable witnesses.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 15 January 2019
You may take help for any matter from, elders of your family, competent and experienced well wishers, seasoned PIP’s, helpgroups, community leaders, NGO’s, experienced colleagues, associations, religious scholars/leaders, influential persons, Employee’s/Trade union leaders, help groups for spouses (Husband/wife) etc and find a very able LOCAL counsel specializing in concerned filed of law e.g; Family/Civil matters as in your case, and well versed with LOCAL applicable rules, precedence, latest judgments etc …. and worth his/her salt, can advise you after examining all case related docs, inputs, evidences on record.
Obtain proper legal opinion in writing!
Avoid acting on your own on hearsay.
One should not fall for IT’s and entities loitering at online portals to allure unsuspecting querists. There are many threads on such instances at LCI also.
Online discussions are not substitute to in person discussions with a very able counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in concerned field of law.
One should not fall for IT’s and entities loitering at online portals to allure unsuspecting querists……the personal details of unsuspecting querists/citizens get stored in databanks/compromised……hacked.
Not only your counsel ( if other very able counsel opine that 1st counsel’s advise was bad, misleading) many posing as Lawyers (actually Liar) have been raking up disputes at online portals including LCI on subjects like ; WILL, Nomination, Gratuity etc etc with their misleading, illegal advices and conduct..and have failed due to untiring efforts by some sincere and good natured Experts that indeed want to help and contribute at such portals. Such entities operate by forming gangs ( ikdi, dukdi, tikdi, chokdi and even more)….and attempt to deflect, divert to other members of their gangs to fleece the unsuspecting querists. Many of such entities have never been to courts and might have never won in any case and may not be able to count even on their fingertips. In the end multiple fake ID’s of such IT’s and entities get permanently blacklisted, shunted out at online portals and outside online portals and even society………and that is exactly what they deserve. Make a note of such entities and if the need be act to confine them to correctional centers; Jail, and let their cost and consequences be, heritable. Why such IT’s and entities litter nuisance at online portals: to hide their own weaknesses, and to satiate their insatiable itch and due to their infectious greed. One should stay away from such infected entities and hence away from such infection. You may post if anyone has ever asked /is asking for money from you have paid.
Such IT’s and entities keep on poping up at online portals with fake and new ID’s after their old ID’s are permanently blacklisted/shunted out and money fleeced from unsuspecting is finished.
There are such very able counsels at each location.
Check for such counsels at LOCAL; Family/Civil Courts, HC, SC,..
You can also try for FREE legal Aid from Legal aid center (DLSA) that is usually within LOCAL courts complex..preferably from a very able counsel specializing in Family/Civil matters.
Your counsels may opine that you can appear on 1st date, and obtain copies of petition etc to reply later ….and inform the court that you shall be engaging a counsel and appear thru your counsel….Or your counsel can appear and obtain copies of petition etc and reply later or your new counsel can appear for you.
Your counsels can advise after examining all docs/record/inputs pertaining to your matter and help you. You can also search threads on similar query in SEARCH option ON left Hand side of threads in Forum/Experts section. Having learnt a lesson, remember to consult beforehand for your matters or any matter about which you are not properly informed.
There have many instances of such entities operating with multiple fake Id’s at online portals.


The FEE of all LOCAL counsels at all LOCATIONS is not high/unreasonable as mis-believed by many.
Many counsels even at State Capital/Metro towns do not demand unreasonable high FEE.
IT is rather at online portals that unsuspecting querists are mislead as per many publications, by IT’s and Entities that pose as some Lawyer (actually LIAR) and flaunt/advertise firms that are not Law Firms (Actually LIAR’s Firms) to believe that LOCAL counsels are not knowledgeable..are incompetent.
In Reality the LOCAL counsels win cases in LOCAL courts at all LOCATIONS.
You can go thru/search the cases contested by any Lawyer at court website.
Rest; Your own very able LOCAL counsel as already advised above, can advise you in person, after examining all docs, inputs in person.
Obtain proper legal opinion in writing.
If you are confident that you are well versed with provisions of applicable rules/laws and procedures and can handle the matter on your own, go ahead.
P. Venu (Expert) 15 January 2019
The Police authorities are overreaching. Have they given any written instructions?
sathya (Querist) 16 January 2019
Thank you experts. Police received complaint from wife and came to home to call parents, sister and aunty to police station. My parents and relatives went to police station. I'm paying her 10000 per month without any court order. I'm paying for my own satisfaction for my 5 year old son.
I got married in the year 2009. Found wifes arroagant mental state and filed divorce in the year 2010. Then after that I realised the importance of family life and took her back by withdrawing my petition.
After that she showed her true Colors of vengeance. Then my son born in the year 2013. She made me to attempt suicide coz of her torturing nature in simple family issues.
Then I decided to not live her anymore in order to save atleast the left out decency of my family.
From that time onwards I am paying her money how much ever she asks like 50000, 30000 for school fees and other expenses.
Since they r not giving me vouchers for school fee, I stopped paying their requested amount. I'm paying 10000 per month without any fail.

Now...
Her atm pin blocked it seems. That can be reset by me only using my phone number. For that reason, she filed complaint in all women station and they got in written from my parents that I will appear in police station within 2 months from foreign country and till such time will pay money.

Then, my dad write a letter to SP office and police station to ask for complaint copy. Becauuse, we decided to file defamation case against her.

All women police replied stating they can't give complaint copy without the consent of complainant even through RTI. And failing to adhere the written conditions, they will take legal actions.

Please advice me.
sathya (Querist) 16 January 2019
Thank you experts. Police received complaint from wife and came to home to call parents, sister and aunty to police station. My parents and relatives went to police station. I'm paying her 10000 per month without any court order. I'm paying for my own satisfaction for my 5 year old son. I got married in the year 2009. Found wifes arroagant mental state and filed divorce in the year 2010. Then after that I realised the importance of family life and took her back by withdrawing my petition. After that she showed her true Colors of vengeance. Then my son born in the year 2013. She made me to attempt suicide coz of her torturing nature in simple family issues. Then I decided to not live her anymore in order to save atleast the left out decency of my family. From that time onwards I am paying her money how much ever she asks like 50000, 30000 for school fees and other expenses. Since they r not giving me vouchers for school fee, I stopped paying their requested amount. I'm paying 10000 per month without any fail. Now... Her atm pin blocked it seems. That can be reset by me only using my phone number. For that reason, she filed complaint in all women station and they got in written from my parents that I will appear in police station within 2 months from foreign country and till such time will pay money. Then, my dad write a letter to SP office and police station to ask for complaint copy. Becauuse, we decided to file defamation case against her. All women police replied stating they can't give complaint copy without the consent of complainant even through RTI. And failing to adhere the written conditions, they will take legal actions. Please advice me.


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