Husband and mother creating problems after marriage
veedu
(Querist) 27 September 2015
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
I got married to my lover through special marriage act and we got the certificate of marriage. Our formal engagement took place through parents' consent. Then we got married through special marriage act which was initiated by my husband. Right now we both are not living together after our register marriage. Our parents have fixed a date for formal arranged marriage on 7th Dec 2015. In between, both our families went for marriage shopping, in that his mother started demanding jewels, silk cloths etc.,My parents bought them everything. Our wedding mandap is fixed and my father had given advance for mandap too. Our marriage invitation card is ready and we informed all our relatives, friends and neighbors. Even they informed their relatives, friends and their neighbors. Both our families have common friends and every body is invited for our formal marriage. In between, there was a small fight between me and my husband regarding their demand for money.They want us to move in a new flat and want me to take care of all expenses of deposit,rent, household expenses, furniture etc, so I had small fight with my husband stating there should be equal partition of expenditure as I have EMIs to pay for. After that my mother-in-law called me up and scolded me saying "I will cancel the marriage, you should not try to contact my son. arrogant about my job and salary.My son hates to talk to you. I will make you and ur parents cry for this". We are not talking to each other for the past 3 days.Can I file a complaint for forgery, defamation, cheating case on them? Please advice me what is the legal remedy for me now. I am really fed up that even after marriage I am facing such situation where I am not able to talk to my husband, where we both are earning and I am asked to bare all the expenses. Since I was against that they are now creating a fuss. Please advice as soon as possible.
Guest
(Expert) 27 September 2015
Better Consult Your Local good Advocate and Proceed Legally.Any how Since it is your Love Marriage Better Talk to your Husband Once again and Seek the Possibilities of Reconciliation before you could take a Final Decision Please.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 27 September 2015
what for CAW is there. Get her locked in. In any case you are not going for a happy marriage.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 27 September 2015
Can I file a complaint for forgery, defamation, cheating case on them?
THING APPARENT FROM YOUR QUERY REGARDING THESE SECTIONS.
IT IS A SIMPLE CASE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BY MENTAL TORTURE AND DOWRY DEMAND. YOU HAVE A CLEAR THREAT OF "CANCELLATION OF MARRIAGE" WHICH IS NOTHING BUT THREAD TO ABANDON YOU.
SUCH LIKE PERSONS (if your version is true) HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE OUT OF JAIL.
OR ELSE
KEEP FALLING DOWN BEFORE THEIR DEMAND TILL LAST STRAW AND THEN GET A BEGGING BOWL FOR YOUR PARENTS.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 27 September 2015
Forget formal marriage, you are married legally.
Any demand falls under dowry demand and their attitude is cruelty.
Agree with the advise of expert Sudhir Kumar.
K.S.Srinivas
(Expert) 27 September 2015
Better follow the advice of expert Sudhir Kumar.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 28 September 2015
nothing to add.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 02 October 2015
Your similar query on another thread was addressed properly, you may visit that thread for more answers.
