divorce

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 25 November 2009 This query is : Resolved
hi
i am manish verma married from last 14years with 2 children wants divorce.she live in our home and i live in ranted house from 8 months. our common friends and relatives patchup our differences many times but it not work after some time it start again . due to this i seperate from my family and our childrens also suffer. actually i conclused that the main reson of all this is my financial iosses and my business is not doing well. we are not fit for each other as she is not cooperative by nature and so her family. i know this effect my kids but our fighings are also not did good for them.so i need suggestions am i in a right path should i file the case first or wait from her site because she need only money not me.as i airady give financial support to them which is also my duty.but even they do not care of my health. i did my best to save this marrige but now i am fedup of all this fightings and pollice cases which is humulated. and i dint want any tipe of compromice. pls. gide me.

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Sachin Bhatia (Expert) 25 November 2009
Dear Manish, first of all i suggest you to resolve the matter with the help of elders of the family, if you think there is no other option left for you apart from separation then with the consent of your wife you can apply for Divorce by mutual consent u/s 13b HMA.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 25 November 2009
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Legal Eagle (Expert) 26 November 2009
Dear Manish,

Taking divorce and seperation are individual decision. As informed you are staying seperately. Are you staying seperately with your wife's permission, has she asked you to stay seperately? Can't you stay in the same house and not talk to her and be with your children?

Have you got any authenticated proof that the cause of fights are your financial losses. I would advice that you and your wife first visit a Counsellor and try to find out the cause for this misunderstanding. If sorted out very good for your family. Especially for your children. If still misunderstanding continues then seek a legal advise of an Advocate.

Please note that at the time of divorce, your children will also be dragged into it and at times this has a great effect on the children if they are adoloscent.

Best of luck and think twice before taking any hasty decision.

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