Need Help For Divorce
pkj
(Querist) 29 September 2014
This query is : Resolved
Respected Lawyers,
I got married last year in the month of Jan,It was an arrange marriage.
From the very first month my wife was started orguing/fighting with me and my mom on small small issues which we use to ignore considering she might take time to adjust in the family. Since feb she started harrassing my mother telling her that she will put the entire family behind the bars on false cases if we will not do whatever she say.This continued for couple of months,i tried to whatever she said,but her demands were un ending.I belong to a amiddle class family where in i am the only income source,i work in a MNC in IT.She is also well educated and working women. Last year she abused my mom and also tried to bit her with chair.Thank i called her dad and told all her behqviour.He was not accepting in the First instance.Than her family came to Pune and tried to sort out. They assured me my wife will not repeat this,but still the situation is same.Since marraige she hardly talk to my mom , and also dor months we dont interact with each other evev we stay under one roof.We dont keep husband wife relationship for montha now.She even dont want divorse and dont want leave peacefully.My parrents are crying every day.Every day she fights for aome or the other reason.I need divorse,could you please help me with your expertise,How can i proceed with it.I missed to update that she even tried to do suicide drama last year.We informes her parents as well but her mom was talling lock her in a room.she will not do anything as she use to do the same there as well.
Please help me with the situation.Do let me know if any additional information is needed.
Thanks in advance.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 29 September 2014
First try to solve your problem with the help of your society elders and her parents
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 September 2014
Try to have amicable solution.
Divorce is not easy, once you go ahead she can file cases of DV, dowry, maintenance etc., at her native place, just punting you in trouble. You may have to be behind bars for some time if bail / anticipatory bail is not granted. Contested divorce case may take 3-5 years with uncertain results.
If no other alternate left, consult a local lawyer.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 30 September 2014
you wife needs to consult a psychiatrist . your wife needs medical treatment . record her threats. it will help you in filing for divorce after expiry of one year from marriage
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate 
(Expert) 04 October 2014
You may follow the steps suggested by experts above, it will be too early to break the nupital ties, give her a chance by taking her to a marriage counselor. tke the advise, implement it, if it is not working then you may decide further action.
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 04 October 2014
She needs psychiatric treatment and counselling to adjust herself with new environment and married life. Don't think about divorce now which is a long drawn proceedings.
pkj
(Querist) 09 October 2014
Thanks all for your valuable suggestion.
I tried a lot since last 1 and a half year, by involving her parents her uncle and other relative last year but there was no result. She continued to behave the sam way. She wants her to do whatever she wish my mother do all house hol works instead she misbehaves with my mom every now and than. This time i also tried to involve her parents and my relatives which she didnt want to happen.she created again a drama at home by abusing my mom,she told my mom that she will cut my family into 3 pieces .my mom is very scared of her ..i missed my office as my mom was in a deppression. We had an orgument last week, she said she will be lyk that only through hrr lifetime and will not change .She just wants to ruin my life. Neither wants to get seprat
ed nor wants to leave happily. My mom is not safe at home imln my absence. Please suggest
pkj
(Querist) 09 October 2014
I know it will not be that easy to get divorse but even staying with her is making life hell not only for me but my parents as well.All she wants is to roam in car spend lyk anything dont think of savings.She also earns 15k per month but dont want to spend a single penny from her in come and wants me to give her 5k cash 2k patrol ,postpaid bills and shopping everymonth.Which i cannot afford.She just wants a luxurious life, no work,no restrictions.As a worst case i am prepared to stay behind bars,atleast that's much better than staying with her.
pkj
(Querist) 09 October 2014
Please suggest.
