Cheated by wife.
aneesh
(Querist) 10 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
respected lawyers i am from kerala.
I was a seminarian(student of priesthood)
i met a girl and we loved for seven years and registered our marriage registrar office on april2011.she was at her home only because i had some problems to take her to my home because of relegion but unfortunately her parents came to know and she had filed to nulify that marriage.she was in true love but she has been changed by her parents.i talked and tried to chnage her but no use.i lost my hope in her.she allegation is i forced her to love and also to marry me.
I have all the evidences to disprove her allegations.
she forced me to love and had told me that if i go to seminary she would suicide i have the love letter to show this.
I lost my prestige life and career and even parents for her.
could any one say can i do any thing against her legally.can i complain to the police or elsewhere for cheating and spoiling my life.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 10 February 2012
The problem is for the remedy you have to initiate criminal prosecution against her which you may not want.
Fight the case and disporve her allegations.
aneesh
(Querist) 10 February 2012
Even though i and my relatives convinced her she is not ready.she and her parents look for money and status.i am asked by my relatives to go against her.she thinks that if she annuls the marriage then no one will come to know the marriage and can marry as first marriage.she has slept with me for three years and she says that no intercourse.i hope she is not a normal person.please what could i do against her and her parents.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 10 February 2012
dont be vindictive . if afer 3 years of having physical relations with you she does not want to stay with you anymore let her go . give her a divorce she wants .
you have evidence to disprove her allegations . rely upon them to disprove her case . better arrive at an amicable settlement .
god does not want you to be a priest . you were a student at seminarian for some years . christ always taught us to forgive our worst enemies
aneesh
(Querist) 10 February 2012
dear experts I can disprove but the truths she hides should be explored.She hides from her parents and the court.She had written to me about her father's torture also.we had met regularly at her home when ever there was no body she hided it.she had spoiled my life and all.is there any possibility to do against her?
they do not want divorce because she says if ti divorce then she will be second married.she challenged me that with money and power they will make it nullified to do as first marriage.all the people must come to know please help me
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 10 February 2012
Had you been priest you were teaching
FORGIVE & FORGET
Here you should practice it in your own case.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 10 February 2012
if your wife does not want to live with you how can you force her? give her her freedom .
concentrate your energies in helping the needy . you could not be ordained a priest but by your actions you can lead a priestly life .
one day you will find a better girl to sepnd your life with . have faith in god and move on in life
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 11 February 2012
May be true that she was in true love with you,though I disagree,but now you can not disagree that she is in no love with you,may be to you it is due to brain wash of her parrents.To me lust and not love was the element of the union.Forget her is the advise as in the circumstances even if you win the case of nullity but you would not be able win her day to to day dis satisfactions in usual life.
