Talaq - Kindly advice
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Anonymous
(Querist) 25 April 2011
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Dear Sirs,
I, Md Ibrahim, Working as AM in a reputed bank, got married to lady on 06.11.09. She did not offered herself to me from the day of marriage. My in laws deceived me & my parents by giving false age of their daughter. As my father is pious & elder person i never disclosed teh facts in front of him. i respected my parents & tradition & i kept calm & waited for her. my father passed away on 30.11.10. & i got requested for transfer of job to my home town. I & my wife alone stayed for 9 months, after my father`s demice i got transferred. before the 40 days of my father`s death ceremony my wife left me saying she would like to visit their parents for couple of days without seeking me or my mother`s permission dt 08.01.2011. on several occassions we called her, but she did not turned up till today. my in laws started abusing me & my mother over phones that we tortured their daughter, never offered food. I posted a registered letter stating to come back & if she has any issues asked to keep in front of concellors to clarify. they started threatening me over phone by making some person to call saying they will lodge FIR in Womens protection cell at Hyderabad. I revealed all the facts of my wife to my mother & my grand father. they came to a conclusion & asked me to take her back. with this intenetion my grand father asked to come for discussion they did not responded properly & made mess at my home, with which each & every person came to know that my wife left me. After a cuple of days my in laws called my grand father for TASFIYA/ compromise & started abusing in filthy language & threatened him to kill him & me.
My in laws are also saying that i am impotent so thats why i was calm. my wife & thier parents are not willing to send their daughter to me, and asking me to leave my mother & sisters. how could i leave my mother, who lost her husband just few months ago & we dont have any financial support except me. I have to unmarried sisters, i have to take care of them. I am scared now, if I accept her she might book me some complaint over me or my mother, then what will be my sisters future. kindly advice me in this regards please.
M.Sheik Mohammed Ali
(Expert) 25 April 2011
you also file same reason complaint to police station and file RCR, and face the trial.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 25 April 2011
No.. Now don't lodge any complaint against your wife.. Just call back her to reunion through a legal notice.. If she failed mean just file a RCR. I mean restitution of conjugal rights.. Its will be save you in future.. Whether you willing to rejoin or not.. But just file the RCR before they lodge any police complaint against you..
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 25 April 2011
If you lodge any police complaint now mean, then while you approach the court for rcr, then automatically court will raise a question on you that with this much abuse why you want to get back your wife for reunion? So just avoid that circumstances.. All the best.. I like you for loving your mother this much..
