lady is blackmailing my husband

Legally, the lady cannot claim any right if, indeed, the realationship was a live-in arrangement. However, your husband is responsible towards the children, if any, and is liable to provide maintainannce. More than the technical aspects, it is important that your husband takes stand on the issue of which, he alone aware of all the facts.

Do not assume things on your own and initiate any action from your side.  Face the situation when you are confronted with.  There is a price for every action, which you may call as destiny.  Do not overthink and most of things you are imagining as per threats may not stand before you as threats in future.  If there is a scope record such threats as material evidence, as it may help you in case if you are confronted.  (Gererally it is married women that make this issue, but you are protecting your husband, knowing his background to keep up relationship.  Congratulations.  Your positivity may protect him)

Hello Varalakshmi mam,

   Your Husband could have done the mistake ,but thats PAST. there is no point digging the PAST.

 Wait for that LADY to take her First Step and then Only react. proving that using DNA test is not easy in court, courts will not order DNA tests so easily,supreme court has given clear indications about this.there are lot many Judgements where a DNA test has been denied. so relax.

  Second thing about her black mails. ask that Lady to do what ever she wants,she is just trying to black mail you she cannot do anything.

whats the status of that Lady now? is she married to some one else? or just staying with her son? 

Her Case will not Stand in COURT's . Every man will have a PAST forget and forgive, you are a Mother proceed further with your life and your Family.

SHE CANNOT DO ANYTHING TO YOU or YOUR FAMILY.

Vinay.[I am also in the same boat as you]