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Tejaswini (Mgr)     27 February 2012

Extra marital affair

My friend is married since last 14 years. She and her husband are both working couplet. She has doubt that her husband has an affair with a lady. Her husband sometime accepts while sometimes not. This disturbs her a lot. He enjoys emotionally hurting her. She does not have any proof that this lady exists or not. On this basis just want to know few things:

1. As she does not have any proof against her husband and the other lady, can she still file an FIR about her husbands extra marital affair?

2. Can she appoint a detective to shadow him? Is this legal?

3. They have one son (13yrs), can she get the custody of the child?

4. By doing any one of above will create any problem for divorce and custody of child?



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Shantilal Pandya ( Advocate)     28 February 2012

1. she cannot  and   not file FIR  merely  because of  suspicion on, that too  the  complaint of     adultery  cant be  filed  by the  wife , though  such  complaint  can be  file  by the Husbad     if     the  wife is  committed  adultery  

2  investigation through detective  can be made  there is no  ban,

3 .Does she     reside with husband  presently? if not  she  can  get custody of  child       by filing petition  under      the      Guardian  and  Wards Act,

    but the  court  may  grant relief only  if it is  satisfied that the  welfare of the  child       is  with you  compaired to        that      with   the father , with  regard also to the       wishes of the  child 

3. the  wife  really  wants  divorce  from her  huband ? if  so   she  can  get it only  if     the  grounds  for  divorce        under relevant  marriage laws  is  proved to the            satisfaction  of the court . if the parties  are HIndues    the          grounds  for               divorce  are provided under S. 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act. 

  

Shantilal Pandya ( Advocate)     28 February 2012

Originally posted by :Shantilal Pandya
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1. she cannot  and   not file FIR  merely  because of  suspician , that too  the  complaint of     adultery  cant be  filed  by the  wife , though  as  per law such  complaint  can be  filed  by the Husbad     if     the  wife has committed  adultery  

2  investigation through detective  can be made  there is no  ban,


3 .Does she     reside with husband  presently? if not  she  can  get custody of  child       by filing petition  under      the      Guardian  and  Wards Act,


    but the  court  may  grant relief only  if it is  satisfied that the  welfare of the  child       is  with you  compaired to        that      with   the father , with  regard also to the       wishes of the  child 


3. the  wife  really  wants  divorce  from her  huband ? if  so   she  can  get it only  if     the  grounds  for  divorce        under relevant  marriage laws  is  proved to the            satisfaction  of the court . if the parties  are HIndues    the          grounds  for               divorce  are provided under S. 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act. 

  
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(Guest)

Neither the wife nor the husband can file an FIR of Adultery on mere suspsion.Proof and evidence is required and the court of law does not function on mere allegations .Please find below the grounds for divorce in india and this has to be proved in the court of law .

 

The following are the grounds for divorce in India mentioned under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.

Adultery – The act of indulging in any kind of s*xual relationship including intercourse outside marriage is termed as adultery. Adultery is counted as a criminal offence and substantial proofs are required to establish it. An amendment to the law in 1976 states that one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce.

Cruelty – A spouse can file a divorce case when he/she is subjected to any kind of mental and physical injury that causes danger to life, limb and health. The intangible acts of cruelty through mental torture are not judged upon one single act but series of incidents. Certain instances like the food being denied, continuous ill treatment and abuses to acquire dowry, perverse s*xual act and such are included under cruelty.

Desertion – If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for at least a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.

Conversion – Incase either of the two converts himself/herself into another religion, the other spouse may file a divorce case based on this ground.

Mental Disorder – Mental disorder can become a ground for filing a divorce if the spouse of the petitioner suffers from incurable mental disorder and insanity and therefore cannot be expected from the couple to stay together.

Leprosy – In case of a ‘virulent and incurable’ form of leprosy, a petition can be filed by the other spouse based on this ground.

Venereal Disease – If one of the spouses is suffering from a serious disease that is easily communicable, a divorce can be filed by the other spouse. The s*xually transmitted diseases like AIDS are accounted to be venereal diseases.

Renunciation – A spouse is entitled to file for a divorce if the other renounces all worldly affairs by embracing a religious order.

Not Heard Alive – If a person is not seen or heard alive by those who are expected to be ‘naturally heard’ of the person for a continuous period of seven years, the person is presumed to be dead. The other spouse should need to file a divorce if he/she is interested in remarriage.

No Resumption of Co-habitation – It becomes a ground for divorce if the couple fails to resume their co-habitation after the court has passed a decree of separation.

The following are the grounds for divorce in India on which a petition can be filed only by the wife.

  • If the husband has indulged in rape, bestiality and sodomy.
  • If the marriage is solemnized before the Hindu Marriage Act and the husband has again married another woman in spite of the first wife being alive, the first wife can seek for a divorce.
  • A girl is entitled to file for a divorce if she was married before the age of fifteen and renounces the marriage before she attains eighteen years of age.
  • If there is no co-habitation for one year and the husband neglects the judgment of maintenance awarded to the wife by the court, the wife can contest for a divorce.

Based on the Dissolution of Muslim Marriage act, 1939, a Muslim woman can seek divorce on the following grounds for divorce in India.

  • The husband’s whereabouts are unknown for a period of four years.
  • The husband has failed to provide maintenance to the wife for at least two years.
  • The husband has been under imprisonment for seven or more years.
  • The husband is unable to meet the marital obligations.
  • If the girl is married before fifteen and decides to end the relationship before she turns eighteen.
  • The husband indulges in acts of cruelty.

Let us check out the following grounds of divorce mentioned under the Indian Divorce Act, 1869.

  • Adultery
  • Conversion to another religion
  • One of the couples suffering from an unsound mind, leprosy or communicable venereal disease for at least two years before the filing of the divorce.
  • Not been seen or heard alive for the period of seven or more years.
  • Failure in observing the restitution of conjugal rights for at least two years.
  • Inflicting cruelty and giving rise to mental anxiety that can be injurious to health and life.
  • Wife can file a divorce based on the grounds of rape, sodomy and bestiality.

The following are the grounds for divorce in India included in the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936 and the amendment of the same in 1988.

  • Continuous absence of seven years.
  • Non-consummation of marriage within one year.
  • Unsound mind provided the other spouse was unaware of the fact at the time of marriage and the divorce must be filed within three years of marriage.
  • Pregnancy by some other man provided the husband was unaware of the incident during the time of marriage and that he must not have undergone s*xual intercourse after he came to know about the situation. The divorce must be filed within two years of marriage.
  • Adultery, bigamy, fornication, rape, or any other type of perverse s*xual act.
  • Act of cruelty
  • Suffering from venereal disease or forcing the wife into prostitution.
  • Sentenced to prison for seven years or more
  • Desertion for two or more years
  • Non-resumption of cohabitation after passing an order of maintenance or a decree of judicial separation.

 

Ranee....... (NA)     28 February 2012

I feel this is not a legal issue..Tejaswini, your friend should try to know the facts by hiring detective and that too without husband's knowledge.Whether he has affair or not if he comes to know that she suspects him it will hurt him and will be attached more to the other lady.If wife maintains good relation with husband that will be best medicine for him and his mistress .I don't support divorce as they have a child.

Shantanu Wavhal (Worker)     28 February 2012

She does not have any proof that this lady exists or not.

 

mere doubt may be detrimental - verification advised

Bharatkumar (ADVOCATE )     28 February 2012

Ans. 1.  14 years long life and now problem in your life. U discuss with your husband about your doubt because u r not new couple so just discuss with husband.

Ans. 2. why appoint detective trust him. U r think about your chield and feture.

Ans. 3.  First u know the reality  then think about custody of chield.

Ans. 4. Understanding is very important in your case.

U both are going for tour for some days and enjoy your life alone. 


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