I am very disturbed- pls help!!!
I want to give all maintainence expense for wife (housewife) and son (12 yrs). My wife is not ready to leave me-- just because of SOCIAL STATUS and harrasing me. I already filed for divoce. How to expedite that? Any tactics to make her agree in a mutual divorce which will eventually save money (for both ) and energy? I moved out 1ce in July 2009 and filed for divorce (case is still ON)- but came back in Oct 2009 due to my son. But I am in serious depression (under medical help ) since then and now DETERMINED to break and stay ALONE. I might contact my old gfrnd after I move out agn in Jan 2010 (TOLD WIFE ALREADY). But without my divorce first, I cant move on WITH MY LIFE. I have desire to have new relation but in a kind of MESS now! My wife telling "Live separate- whats the need of Divorce".Like to mention, I had several affairs in last 10 years- now when I want to be honest and leave her, she is doing this! Earlier she told me in several occasions about divorce, which she is denying now. I understand there is nothing kept in our marriage any more. She is forcing me to stay in marriage "only for our son". But I lost the reason for living any more for anything in this universe!!! So please advice- I beg you ALL!!!
I have 3 options--
-stay in my marriage
-leave my marriage and go for divorce
-end my life by self destruction (as I dont have ANY physical or emotioal feelings towards my wife)!
I perhaps can have better emotions for my son staying apart- but now I am feeling "compelled and compromised" to stay for him, while I not at all want to be with his mother (my wife).
Please advice me the best you can. I am what I am, you can judge and use foul languages. But ONLY I can feel my condition, and I wish none of you should never be in my condition
Please note- I stopped s*x last 1yr with my wife- and last 3 months with any1 else also
I want to give all maintainence expense for wife (housewife) and son (12 yrs). My wife is not ready to leave me-- just because of SOCIAL STATUS and harrasing me. I already filed for divoce. How to expedite that? Any tactics to make her agree in a mutual divorce which will eventually save money (for both ) and energy? I moved out 1ce in July 2009 and filed for divorce (case is still ON)- but came back in Oct 2009 due to my son. But I am in serious depression (under medical help ) since then and now DETERMINED to break and stay ALONE. I might contact my old gfrnd after I move out agn in Jan 2010 (TOLD WIFE ALREADY). But without my divorce first, I cant move on WITH MY LIFE. I have desire to have new relation but in a kind of MESS now! My wife telling "Live separate- whats the need of Divorce".Like to mention, I had several affairs in last 10 years- now when I want to be honest and leave her, she is doing this! Earlier she told me in several occasions about divorce, which she is denying now. I understand there is nothing kept in our marriage any more. She is forcing me to stay in marriage "only for our son". But I lost the reason for living any more for anything in this universe!!! So please advice- I beg you ALL!!!
I have 3 options--
-stay in my marriage
-leave my marriage and go for divorce
-end my life by self destruction (as I dont have ANY physical or emotioal feelings towards my wife)!
I perhaps can have better emotions for my son staying apart- but now I am feeling "compelled and compromised" to stay for him, while I not at all want to be with his mother (my wife).
Please advice me the best you can. I am what I am, you can judge and use foul languages. But ONLY I can feel my condition, and I wish none of you should never be in my condition
Please note- I stopped s*x last 1yr with my wife- and last 3 months with any1 else also
