Bineesh (BA) 25 February 2013

Someone help me please

I am a Hindu boy very soft, helping nature and sensitive, (34) married (registered on 1st Oct 2009 under special marriage act) to a Muslim 3 years back due to this we never had support from my in laws as they were against our marriage and also not financially strong, but still I used to help them financially, we had only support from my parents and relatives my parents and also they have gifted her all type of gold ornaments, I have taken insurance in her name and son name, and I have taken medical insurance in her name and son name, and also I was saving RD in my sons name for the future education. We have a baby boy of 2 years, as the baby was born in 7 ½ month at that time both wife and son were hospitalized for 3 weeks, though her parents knew they dint even visited or helped, as there were no one to take care she was staying in my house my mom, dad, brothers and relatives were taking care of my wife and son and I used to be there on every weekends, on Jan 6th 2013 she simply started an issue and fought with me and went back to her home along with our baby by giving a statement to the police station "that she don’t want to live with me", (She removed all her jewels and gave it to me but she carried all her dress and my sons dress to her home), and when I called her she is asking me to convert to Muslim, so that she will come back. i can’t live without my wife and son, is there any way that I could get my wife and son back. I am ready to take a separate house so that she can follow her religion and I will follow mine, but still she is telling that her parents will not send her with me unless I am converted to Muslim. I want both of them in my life I love her so much. Kindly advice what I could do. Its 45 days now I want to see my son and wife but I don’t know the address where is she staying neither she is not calling me on phone also. Kindly help me. She knows that I love her so much and I can’t live without her and I would do anything for her. I think she is taking advantage of this; yes I am ready to do anything for her except covert to Muslim.

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Chetan Joshi (Advisory/Advocacy) 25 February 2013

Look, Its a different scene if her parents are restraining her to meet you but as you said, it is she who has gone away, she cannot be compelled to come back except for a restitution order by the court. You can also let the court intervene to get visitation rights of the child

I will not suggest to get the courts in the picture and with ease and patience settle it amicably...

And paramountly, Dont lose hope....

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I dont agree with Chetan here.

No court can force her to stay with u, even if u win RCR.........so RCR is just a waste of time....

I think ur case is a tricky one.....where they want u 2 change ur religion, try convincing them that religion comes no way between 2 souls, when 2 ppl love each other. You both can allow each other to follow their religions respectively.

And have a Panchayati meeting with them. Involve elders from both the parties and come to a common conclusion where both the parties agree.