After getting all sorts of reply, I think your quest has been satiated. In modern times, when girl claim dual status such situations after marriage as very likely to happen.
On one side if a girl wear short clothes and hangs out with boy-friend (in some cases boy-friendS), and if someone objects, they say its their life and they can choose. When they get into problems, they cry that they are innocent & poor Indian Women. WHY DUAL STATUS?
Live life on one track. If you were matured enough then why you consented to marriage. There must be plenty of marriage photographs which would show that you were not hand-tied to be forced into this marriage.
As I opined earlier, marriage is sacred and so is the relation emerging from it. If you husband had a past and he would act wierd then it gives you the right to make taunts and keep poking him, but when it comes to man taunting women, its harrassment.
I think the society needs a change in terms of the point of view of treatment to women. Either treat them as open and modern or treat them as innocent. On the name of innocent Indian women, all crooks are taking advantage in court cases and daily life but real innocent women only gets harrassment. It gets so difficult to differentiate in a real case of harrassment to that of false allegations.