How to marriage with my father's sister's daughter


dear sunil sharma.if you intend to marry afirst cousin then you have to convert to christanity or islam .in arecent case  which icame across through this platform of lawyers club of india. but reconsider the matteras you may be left alone in this way.a man cannot live alone in the society.

 
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If one of the two converts to another religion, as advised by Advocate Gopalakrishnan, then they can marry only under the Special Marriages Act, 1954. For marriages under that Act also the list given by Advocate Nadeem Qureshi will apply. The plea of Mr. Sunil Sharma reminds me of a play “Sambhavami Yuge Yuge” by Cho Ramaswamy, the journalist lawyer from Chennai. In that play there is a lawyer, who considers his profession as his Dharma as defined in the Gita. He helps people to evade income-tax, criminals to escape punishment etc. When he is asked why he is helping people to do the wrong things, he says that what he was doing was only his dharma as ordained by Lord Krishna in the Gita. It appears Mr. Sunil Sharma is also looking for a dharma-conscious lawyer. Hope the  lawyers out there are listening.


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Please NOTE for Gods sake, don't enter into any marriage contract. Think twice. This is not advisable, medically. We should not think about how the world started and  how we are continuing our hereditary , the tree may be totally different. Our existence in this world has different meaning in this modern world.  After  all s*x is nothing and you will know this truth only when you become old like me. Don't regret later. This world is big enough and you can select anybody outside your family tree. Read good books on genes and this will open your eyes.


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If it was the only Matter of s*x then i would never think for that.

As we love each other So, to be live toghter is a queastion right now....we know the importance of each other, thats why we are trying to get the answer.....

we are trying to find a way because we feels very happy when we are spending toghter....

 

my dear the person like you who made a relationship only for the S*X will never understand the feeling of love.....the importance of the person to whom you love the most....the feeling for someone who care you the most......the depth of the affection & love.....the rememberance of someone when you feel lonlyness...........!!

We know one thing that we are too much commited to each other........and we hope we will surely find a way & live toghter....!!

 

 
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If you love your sister, would you marry her too?


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Rightly said, if you love your sister or your mother(incest), woudl you like to marry her? Medically not advisable to marry close relatives and regret later. Passion for  SEX is very strong in the early ages. As s*x is blind. In all spheres of life, as human being one needs to control, considering the pros and cons(merits and demerits) thinking, knowing the limits and tolerances, to finally arrive at a discretion, to choose your life-partner through matrimonial Ads.Sites, through your own friends and relatives(well-wishers), single clubs etc.

Agree, SEX is very important in one's own life, for pleasure and reproductory, viewing your  generation tree, your own offsprings of the future. Consider your own image in the society you live in. We would not have interacted in the lawyersclubindia inter-active platform if we did not exist, if s*x wasn't there.   Don't regret later. This world is big enough and you can select anybody outside your family tree. Read good books on genes and this will open your eyes of enlightenment.

 
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Films, novels and even ancient plays say that love is divine, ordained by God. All those are just bull-sh*t. Love and s*x are only grand scheme of nature for the propagation of species. If you ask me whether nature has devised any scheme to prevent reproduction through consanguineous relationships, the answer is “No”. Nature’s plans are random. Reproduction happens in large numbers through consanguineous relationships as well as otherwise. It results in death or low quality of life of the population in large numbers. Whereas, it is still so in the case of animals, man deliberately changed the scheme, in order to improve the chances of survival and quality of life.   If one loves and for that reason marries, s*x naturally follows. As you want to  marry your cousin for love only, are you prepared for an as*xual marriage? It was said that the marriage of Acharya Kripalani and Sucheta Kripalani was as*xual. Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru was not in favour of the marriage of Indira Nehru and Feroz Ghandy. Mahatma Gandhi tried to mediate and proposed as*xual marriage. But both Indira and Feroz declined.

One of my relatives married his close relative against the wishes of the elders in the family. He had two sons and one daughter. Both the sons suffered from hemophilia, a disease in which blood will not clot. Even a small cut will result in continuous bleeding without clotting. It can result in death also. The daughter was normal. But both the boys died before reaching 20 years. Do not be selfish and think of you two only. Think also of the new generation you will bring into this world.

 
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Hi, being maharashtrian Hindu and not lawyer, I can tell u one thing father's sister's husband being from different family marrying her daughter/son is allowed just as maternal uncle's daughter/son as community doesn't think it odd. Ofcourse, chances of carrying genetical defects, if any, may increase. If ur community or girls community disrespects/ doesn't permit then couple may face serious troubles which you may better know. Changing religion is'nt better solution, changing mindset of community is imp. See, if adult girl who gets deceived by drunkard like guy even then family of girl can't have legal voice if girl agrees willingly in court. My best wishes.
 
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Hi, being maharashtrian Hindu and not lawyer, I can tell u one thing father's sister's husband being from different family marrying her daughter/son is allowed just as maternal uncle's daughter/son as community doesn't think it odd. Ofcourse, chances of carrying genetical defects, if any, may increase. If ur community or girls community disrespects/ doesn't permit then couple may face serious troubles which you may better know. Changing religion is'nt better solution, changing mindset of community is imp. See, if adult girl who gets deceived by drunkard like guy even then family of girl can't have legal voice if girl agrees willingly in court. My best wishes.
 
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Maharashtrian Hindu allow cross cousins marriage. My best wishes.
 
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