Dear Experts,
I am posting this very first time on internet. Please help & guide.
YOUR HELP CAN SAVE A SIMPLE & HONEST COMMON MAN.
Story of mine
I live in Punjab, have done bachelor & master degree regular from collage.
Got arranged marriage by my family members in jan 2013 in Rajasthan, but I live in Ludhiana. My fathers expires 5 years back. We were 3 members before marriage . Me my mother & grand mother. My younger sister married 5 years back. I know all work of home , kitchen & market as I have responsibility of both. I at age of 30, till now not even single complain from my school, collage, my working place, or any family member. My wife is 7 years younger then me.
I am in private job from last couple of years, but mother is in Govt. job also an graduate. Due to so expensive living, we somehow manage our livelihood with our salaries.
I decided to marry her on basis of she is doing B.com & had a bank working experience f 1.5 years.
I am a family oriented person. Was Living with my mother & grandmother in mother’s self-earned house. My grandmother lives with us from last 15 years.
In very first month my wife starts mental torture to my grandmother. She left home with bags pack one day I was in office. Any how I came from office & settle things get her back. My grandmother is in deep tension. So, we let her stay in my Masi home which in Rajasthan with family member’s decision.
Now as I come to know/nunderstand my wife is mentally like a 5-8 class brain. She never understand things. She nothing knows about family. As I come to know that my in laws provide her papers at home , she never goes to collage or school. She is mentally not well. But she looks ok as per personality. but not So we are having problems all the time. All the things like kitchen, home, my room is become like messy. But still I got married I tries to let her learn things very politely. She is trying also.
But some days back in august her father came at home & start abusing my mother that she is making me to do cruelty with her daughter. & start shouting I will make u jail on dowry case & cruelty case. He takes her with him & also two Bags already packed at night. Now they me to be separated from my mom after my grandmother. As my mother (old age) is alone without me. Also they want to put false abortion case also to me. But I never did. She was never pregnant.
If she is sleeping till evening my mother never woke up her. Whatever she do, me & my mother never stops her. What I understand she is like a kid only as per her mind, but her mother on phone making her do wrong things like walk from home, says I will suicide if you live here etc. My wife knows about marriage is only to sleep with husband is marriage. She prepare very bad food, but I never complaint. I let her learn with books, tata sky etc, but she is not learning. She is not ready to learn even a single thing as her mind not accepting that. All activities done by her are wrong as per her mind.
I never ever done cruelty to her or my mother did, she is working lady since my born. We are simple & reputed family. We thing they want my mother property. But I don’t want to leave my mom alone. We never ever demand a single penny from them as we are satisfy with our salaries.
As suggested by lawyer. She EVICT me from her property & I live in separated rent home.
Help Required
1. Now they says take her with you or we file false case on you in Rajasthan. Should I go?
2. As I come to know she is mentally ill should I live whole my life with her with all my compromises ?
3. Should I let them file case there in rajasthan ?
4. How to safe my mother self-earned single property we have ?
5. Should I take her back on rented room ?
6. What & how much punishment will I have to bear if they put false case ?
7. Could they involve all my family members also in case for punishment ?
