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Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     07 August 2011

"Harassed" Kerala men unite against women's panel

 

‘Harassed’ Kerala men unite against women’s panel






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Harassed husbands in Kerala have urged the government to scrap the Women’s Commission and establish a Family Commission in its place to ensure fair hearing to men who are tortured by women.

 

The demand was made at seminar organised by ‘Janamithram Janakeeya Neethi Vedi’ (JJNV), an association of harassed husbands, in the state’s northern city of Calicut on Sunday to formulate strategies to protect the men’s rights.

The speakers at the seminar said that the Women’s Commission was being misused by women for various purposes, including extraction money from men. It seldom tries to verify the genuineness of complaints filed by women.

The speakers also came down heavily on the family courts, saying that it was biased against men. They listen only to the women in most cases. This, the speakers, said was leading to wrong convictions.

They said a large number of advocates were taking advantage of this and dragging men to the court and subsequently pushing them into jails in connivance with their women clients. The seminar demanded removal of advocates from the family courts.

Abdul Nasser, state secretary of Vedi, told Khaleej Times that the family courts and the Women’s Commission were denying justice to men mostly in cases related to dowry. They are blindly supporting the women, who take advantage of the Section 498A of the Anti Dowry Act.

In fact, the Vedi was formed by Janamithram Ibrahim, a retired teacher who was jailed, for his failure to pay the alimony ordered by the court under the Section. He said he had seen many like him in the Kannur jail, where he spent 16 months.

Ibrahim said most of them were ordered to pay the alimony they could not afford. The judgements in these cases were based on wrong statements given by women regarding the income of the opposite party.

 

The Vedi is in the process of filing a Public Interest Litigation in the Supreme Court against those who torment men by misusing laws intended to protecting women.  He said a person, thus convicted by the family court committed suicide in Kannur Central jail in 2008.

Ibrahim said the injustice meted out by the court had turned many mental patients. There are many people who have lost their mental stability and are suffering from depression, he said adding that the courts were also blind to mother-in-laws who are framed and dragged into a case. Several such women are members of the Vedi. A 96-year-old woman, who was pushed out of her house by her daughter-in-law after slapping a case against her, also attended Sunday’s seminar.

The Vedi has been holding conferences of abused men all over Kerala since it came into being last year to mobilise public opinion against the denial of justice to men. The seminar at Calicut was organised as part of the northern region conference.

They have also decided to launch an agitation against the misuse of Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act by individuals and women’s organisations. The agitation will target those women who have filed bogus cases against men and their lawyers.



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Supratim Paul (E)     08 August 2011

Why not have a good comission where people can re consider their marriage 


(Guest)

Good suggestion.

But your Lovely 498 a is not agreed as well her family beacuse these type of commission suggested by yourself stopped their alimony.


(Guest)
Originally posted by :Roshni B..
" the courts were also blind to mother-in-laws who are framed and dragged into a case. Several such women are members of the Vedi. A 96-year-old woman, who was pushed out of her house by her daughter-in-law after slapping a case against her, also attended Sunday’s seminar.
 
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Oh these mother-in-laws!

 

Indian mum-in-laws are habitual of bit***** around in their neighbourhood and amongst their relatives in order to defame their bahus.

 

Now they have found another place to b**** around..In these dharnas..

 

Why doesn't ther food get digested,if they have not gossipped even for a day?

 

As such Kerala's parents have to give so much gold on their daughter's marriage,even if she is an engineer or doctor.

 

These mum-inlaws must be venting out their frustrations in these dharnas for not getting enough gold and also getting implicated in dowry cases..So monetary loss from all directions!

 

Bechari abla naris!

 

DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g (POWER OF DEFENSE IS IMMENSE )     20 February 2012

 

It is a systematic campaign to malign womanhood as a whole.

Woman is a mother, she gives birth to keep human existence alive.

She looks week and hence gets exploited by men in number of ways.

And by logic you can not prove any thing particularly the basic virtues of a woman.


(Guest)

NICE MOVE But dont know why this 1 year old published and that too by Roshni......:D

I THINK ONCE MUST START COMPAIGN IN NEW DELHI.. Or correct me If I'm wrong.. Already many Organisation is demanding to either have Men Ministry or Replace it with Family Instead only supporting Women. because Mother India of all SCW is in New DELHI. i.e. NCW..........

chinnu pintoo (e)     20 March 2012

hi,

this is true, the law made for protectin has been used as weapon against men, i just want to relate like this

xrays invented for medicine now same has been used for weapons

this law become brahma asthra for women,  now  percentage of men are suffering a lot, and neither the law nor the society understand the hard ship men going thru, if this continues men stop beleiveing women and also gay percentage will also increase, and peope dont beleive in marraige rather will prefere to keep live in relations

rajiv_lodha (zz)     20 March 2012

I think there shud be proper procedure laid in to re-address these age old laws in changing world. They made a law in eighties, social fabric was different, there was no IT revolution. Bride burning was rampant, they made the law very sharp edged, tilted it in the favour of wives.........who were no doubt operssed. Down the lane, it became a tool to harass the innocents, to sattle personal scores, to break familes & what not. So much so that SC has commented about it as 'legal terrorism'. Why not a proper procedure is there in which laws should be DYNAMIC & NOT STATIC...............Coz society is changing so is the inter-personal relationships!

When some new drug is invented, they have many marketing trials............when it is found safe & suitable its marked to be used in community. POST-MARKETING TRIALS is the backbone still.......for the complete success. In history many drugs have been subsequently withdrawn when it was discovered that these caused disease rather than cure! Why not same parameter for laws????...................If a law was made with a useful motive but after running it for a few years, it became clear that it works other way round why not GET IT RIGHT, REPAIR IT, AMMEND IT OR RE-LAUNCH ITS CORRECTED VERSION!

I want to mention here one point I read about legal-reforms that "any law made ever shud have a life time of say 10 years, then get the data, re-analyse it & decide about new version for next 10years"

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