Cruality and blackmailing u/s 125 cr. pc.

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1. Blow hot - blow cold situation (may be) you are facing :-)


2. If ld. Court inferenced your income to be in range of 30 - 40 K then half is for you to burn and from balance half ld. Court may decide 1/3rd. into the kitty of minor and wife colly. provided if she can show unable to maintain herself further provided her refusal to return back to matrimonial home is convincing enough to ld. Court.


3. Otherwise I would suggest to wait for the outcome of interim maint. stage and if the interim maint. award is not too pinching to your privy purse then express fast track the main maint. case to reach its finality and walk away with your destined life meeting such obligations regularly. Since 'fraud" element and or 'forgery' and or and or "perjury" elements are not coming out convincing enough as ingredients of a contested maint. suit from your brief except few stray hot / cold grievances here and there hence take your calculated call either to file and or to wait either or respective counter applications under these heads with your hosh and or josh since end of the day it will be you who will be servicing these counters.


4. Also take time to sit with yourself to determine as to what you want all these messy situation to end into as; Divorce / child custody / MCD – remarriage etc etc. I feel very limited final scope such briefs end up into ?????? 

Tajobs Sir,

The Interim Maintenance has been fixed.

Now Imran, you either need to comply the order or you need to challange the same.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

My name is Sayanti, and my family is victiim of BLACKMAILING, harassment, insult and emotional abuse. My brother got married on May 10, 2009, a typical arranged marriage. However, on the night of the wedding reception, she demanded from my brother that all out properties and money should be transferred to her name, because my brother and my parents can "die" anytime, so she will take all the money, buy GOLD with it, and keep it with herself, so her future life is secured. She also demanded, on the same night that, once all my father's property is transferred to her name, my brother should cut off al relationships with my parents. We were shocked to hear all this. However, to keep peace in the family, we kept out mouth shut, and kept fulfilling all her and her family's demands. We have been doing everything to keep her happy, starting from giving her any amount of money whenever she asks for, fees for her computer classes, fees for her music classes, her mobile phone bills, her beauty parlor expenses, expensive gifts to her family members on all occasions.

Even then, she has continually been cusrsing and emotionally abusing my family saying that she has been cheated by us, because, they thought that since my father is a Chartered Accountant and held a very high position in a public sector company, plus I live and work in the United States, they assumed that we have loads of money, but after marriage she found that we have nothing, and thus she has been "cheated".

Since October 12, 2011, she and her family has started BLACKMAILING us, that if my brother immediately does not transfer all out family's wealth and property to her name, she will file a section 498a case of domestic violence against us. Not only that, she will even attempt to hurt herself and held us responsible. She also mentioned that "by now, you all already know that I am an excellent liar, and I will make up numerous false allegations against you, and the judge will believe all my words, I will just have to shed a few tears, and you will all be behind bars just like that".

I have no idea what I can do to protect my family from this situation, I did not find any law that can protect a husband from domestic violence from his wife and her family. Do you have any suggestions for my situation? Should I file FIR against my sister-in-law? My end goal is to get rid of this relationship for ever and protect my family from the evit intent of my sister-in-law and her family.

I am thinking, the evil people, who earlier used their sons to squeeze out money from bride's family, are now using their daughter's instead to squeeze money from the groom's family, such that they now protected by law, and groom's family cannot do anything..

Please help !!

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Also contact SIFF members in your area.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

Thanks Shonee,

I have submitted Condonation of delay application and have applied stay for both interim maintenence and for the stay of main 125crpc case on several grounds of challenge for impuge judgement under section 19 of family court act. I am thankful to you for your inspiration in which I was neglecting the matter. Your attitude for social cause is very much appreciatiable. I solute for the same.

I am humbled by your praise.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com