Hi All Law Experts,

I'm a 28 yrs old and got married due to my too big blunder on JAN-2010 in Nagpur, I am residing in Nagpur & she is not living with me from begining (date of Merrage), We were working together Same office & we both Were falling in love then we decided to get married But I was thinking that time is not good to get married, but i couldn't refused that time, because I had Lost my Job due to recession and she was helped me  financially sometime although I always spoke to her this time wasnt confirtable for me, She said just put the registration in court we will start our married life after 1 to 2 years, & we both got married infront of her relative in Nagpur Court, she is not living with me from begining, but we are discussing on phone, from last 1 years I  realised I was wrong because her nature has been changed we always fighting on phone by lots of small things because we dont have understanding between us, she always ran the orders on me also always Use of abiusive language to me and about my parents and my family also excessive anger of her towards me at trivial matters, I told her please discussed with your parents for arrenge merrage with all hindu formalities but she and her parents not agree at this time they all saying we dont have money for arrenge merrage, I never thought I got married but I have stuck on document which all kept by her she always blackmailing me because she have merrage certificate & I dont have anything, I have transfered near about Rs.1 lacs from my IB to her Account whenever she demanding me,

I can get her at my home but I'm totally afraid due to her nature and she is not agree to live with my parents, Please help me and advice how to get out of this marriage asap or how to solve this. I'm going mad each day, I dont want any major issue in my Life,  My life was lot more peaceful before marriage.

Thanks for giving time to read

send her a legal notice asking her to join your company.

Hi Sushil,

I amnot getting you on 'asking her to join your company "

He mean to say HMA act section 9 RCR .

Mr Ram, since you have registered the marriage you can first ask her by giving legal notice to live along with you, saying that since after marriage, she has not cared to live with you and on the other hand she has demanded money which you have proof of transfering through bank.. Then if she does not come give her notice for divorce, and I think she will definitely respond in a positive way for divorce.

I'm going mad each day, I dont want any major issue in my Life,  My life was lot more peaceful before marriage.

u have a long battle ahead if - she neither comes to live with u nor agrees for divorce.

Yes, I understand I have a long battle ahead but is there anyway to get out from this because I know they all did fraud with me, as per our previous convertion before merrage her family member told me just put register only for our faith we will organise arrenge merrage with all hindu formalities, now they are not agree & saying we dont have money althouh I gave her near abt 1 Lacs in last 2 years & I have all Bank statement, I cant do anything  because I dont have any proof of register marrage, Can I put case in court without marrage certificat or how I will get it.

one IMP thing she is saying that I never loved on you, she had BF before me and he broke relation with her thats why she loved on me for forget him because she was in shocked, after listening this all, I am not agree from heart to live with her
Now am too afraid Please suggest me what should I do

You may file a suit against your wife for restitution of conjugal rights but it is fraught with the risk of her responding with and filing a false criminal case against you. You should, therefore, start building a plausible defence by writing to the concerned authorities against any such move. 

first collect evidences of her evil deeds & then proceed.

plan a stratege. 

Haste makes Waste.

such issues take EONS to get resolved.

Thanks all

Can I File case without any marrege proof, at this time I dont have any marrge document or any proof