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mpkumr (engineer)     11 October 2014

Need solution for marriage problem

 

Hello 

 

i am from andhrapradesh . My father is Rtrd Govt employee . My bother ,age 32 years . working in a small company with 5000 /Pm . Recently we found one match to my brother  from a Village ,Girls(age 20 ) intermediate (+2) discontinued . Her father is a farmer . when both side are ok , we are agree to marriage and we did initial marriage task at girl home .(pasupu ,kumkuma ,saree giving to girl ,this mean girl is our family member ) .Its not engagement ,lagnam . Till here everything  went fine . 

 

Later we got to know that Girl father is fully money minded . for money he will do anything . his plan is to separate my brother from family after marriage and want to divide  all the properties ( we have only one house even though  wanted to separate ) .  And Girl is always listens to his father ,so she will play as his father wants . And if we didn't agree to separate ,he wanted to take his daughter and apply for diverse ,followed by share in brothers property (after marriage ) .

 

After knowing all these ,my parents were very hurt ed  and very afraid of my brothers life . Girls family didn't come to my home for doing initial marriage task pasupu,kunkuma (giving dress , pooja .this mean to say that boy is belongs to their family as son-in-law . ) when we are asking about this ,he is not responding . By seeing all these we decided ,not to have match with this girl and family . But ,Girl father is money minded and he wanted money . If we say NO , he may file case and blackmail for money ! Please give me any suggestion how to skip this marriage . we clearly know what is going to happen after marriage and we cant proceed with this family . we want to disconnect from them without any issues . Please provide me suggestion . 

 

 

Thanks

mpkumr 



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     11 October 2014

@ Author,

1. Send him via Registered post A/D and/or Government Post courier a Notice clearly (in short) mentioning facts and thus canceling the marriage.



2. Later he cannot agitate in any forum is my view.



3. Keep handy as retainer a local advocate found via reference once you show draft of Notice and send the same.



4. BTW, a wife has no legal share in husband’s self earned property nor in his ancestral property till he is alive which are current Laws of the land.

 


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henriettarexach (New York City)     12 October 2014

ATTN PLS, am sending my testimony to everyone out there, that is either in my shoe or needs help one way or the other. My names is Henrietta, and i want to share with you all about my relationship breakup back then, which almost lead me to frustration and unhappy life experience. I was married to my ex divorced Husband 2 year and 11 months ago. My husband, I and and our pretty kid was happily living in peace and harmony. But, few months ago my Husband started acting strange to me. Unknown to me, he has been engaging him self online with another woman, which he was keeping from me as a secret. But few weeks ago, i caught him on our computer, mailing this woman. And, when i asked him who she was, he told me that, she was just a friend. The message conversation caught my attention and i decided to go through it. To my surprise, my husband have been dating this woman on my behalf for some period of time. Immediately, after i noticed that, i began to quarrel with him and all he could told me, was that he never loved me, that we should go for a divorce. I thought he was saying it from anger due to the situation at hand as at that moment. Because of the love i had for him, i never wanted to support it, although it happened, i still did not give up on him. I was looking for solution to get him back home. so i went in search on how i can get back my husband. Well, along my search, i saw a testimony of a woman on how Prophet Irabor was able to restore back her marriage home. Immediately, i copied the email address and decided to give a try. After following all the procedures and instructions given to me by Prophet Irabor, within the space of 2 days, my husband gave me a call and started begging me that he was sorry for what has happened between us. And because i love him so much, i quickly responded to him that i have forgiven him and told him to come back home. Me and my husband are now living happy married life again. All respect and honour to you Prophet Irabor, for the Help you have render to me and my family. Sir, i pray God Strengthen you...If you need his help, you can email him on (prophetiraborcharles@hotmail.com)

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     17 October 2014

@mpkumr:  Since the marriage has not been solemnised, there can be no problem in cancelling the same at this stage, they cannot lodge any complaint against you people because there has been no crime involved. As advised, with the help of local advocate to support you, better go ahead with cancelling the proposed marriage.


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