Need help on mutual divorce matter

Dear Ravish,

It is unfortunate. But many girls abuse laws which are meant for innocent girls who are actually treated brutally. As a matter of fact such girls rarely come for justice. 

If you wish to close the issue you should agree to mutual divorce, it appears on face of it that you will be loosing money. But trust me you will buy peace for yourself and look for a better future.  But if you decide otherwise and you wish to get justice, you have to take all the right steps herein after, as inaction on your part can be harmful. 

Consult a lawyer in person and give full details to him, to spell out the right course of action. 

I may not be of much help as I am in Delhi, but if you wish to talk you can do the same. 

All the best.

Zaryab Rizvi 

9999784700

www.lczf.in

As suggested in a past case, apply for RCR, don't discuss issues. If she discussed hear.

Just ask for your right. And in she files 498a, you may ngo to jail, but do not be afraid.

Be positive always.

First advice in councelling: Wife will try igniting you to violence. Never get excited.

Never give anything in wroting.

Dear Ravish,

If u can bear her demand easily for peace then go for mutual consent divorce and prepare an agreement and put signature of her and her parents and other witnesses before paying any penny. This Compromise deed will prtect you and your family members but plz go to any expert to prepare the draft of compromise deed else any lacuna will harm you.

But if u want to teach her a lesson then you have to wait for two three years and have patience to fight various cases. For that you have to consult any expert lawyer.

Good luck.

if you want to get rid of the problem soon as stated by you, then settle for mutual consent divorce thru court only. and engage a advocate for drafting of the mutual consent divorce petition with detailed clauses to avoid any future implications. however if you want to go on, then lodge a complaint with the police yourself first detailing the interntiions of yoiur wife and family to implicate you in false dv and dowry cases.

Dear Ravish,

If u can bear her demand easily for peace then go for mutual consent divorce and prepare an agreement and put signature of her and her parents and other witnesses before paying any penny. This Compromise deed will prtect you and your family members but plz go to any expert to prepare the draft of compromise deed else any lacuna will harm you.

But if u want to teach her a lesson then you have to wait for two three years and have patience to fight various cases. For that you have to consult any expert lawyer.

Good luck.

But what about the 10L demand? No one commented on that.

Marriage expenses happen on both sides so 10L demands sounds too huge. Just return the jewellery etc given to you in marriage that too as part of your mutual consent agreement. Go via court only.

Inform the authorities about your apprehension. Call them up, talk nicely regarding the separation and record the whole thing including the threat of dowry cases etc.

Try to get anticipatory bail too.

Come to think of it, I am observing that girls who had boyfriends etc in the past seem to be the worst wives. It looks like we should dig the girl's past before agreeing to the marriage proposal. Surely the author's wife is the cause of ruin of three lives.

Originally posted by : Kamal Grover
	Dear Ravish, If u can bear her demand easily for peace then go for mutual consent divorce and prepare an agreement and put signature of her and her parents and other witnesses before paying any penny. This Compromise deed will prtect you and your family members but plz go to any expert to prepare the draft of compromise deed else any lacuna will harm you. But if u want to teach her a lesson then you have to wait for two three years and have patience to fight various cases. For that you have to consult any expert lawyer. Good luck.

Dear Advo!
The queriest says that marriage happened in march 2012, can u tell how MCD be applied 6 months after marriage? Isnt 1yr time period necessary to do so!?

petition for dissolution of marriage by a decree of divorce may be presented to the district court by both the parties to a marriage together, whether such marriage was solemnised before or after the commencement of the Marriage Laws (Amendment) Act, 1976 (68 of 1976)*, on the ground that they have been living separately for a period of one year or more, that they have not been able to live together and that they have mutually agreed that the marriage should be dissolved.

(2) On the motion of both the parties made not earlier than six months after the date of the presentation of the petition referred to in sub-section (1) and not later than eighteen months after the said date, if the petition is not withdrawn in the meantime, the court shall, on being satisfied, after hearing the parties and after making such inquiry as it thinks fit, that a marriage has been solemnised and that the averments in the petition are true, pass a decree of divorce declaring the marriage to be dissolved with effect from the date of the decree.]

Hello  ,

                       I have read your whole of the story and find out that you are a  victim of misusing of indian dowry laws which are ment for the protection of the girls but today people have made a mokery of these laws and started to use these laws for there own selfish motives .

                       i will suggest you to sattle this matter with mutual divorce but i will also suggest for proper nagotiation while accepting their demand it will definitly help you in getting rid out of this and appoint a good advocate who can help you who will plead from your side and help you in selection of the terms and conditions of the divorce and nagotiate from your side ,because i dont think you need to accept all the demands without any nagotiation.