Please give me the advice, how to go forward in this situation
My wife has gone to their parents house, she don’t want to return back. And their parents also not interested in sending her. Since 3 months she is with their parents, I have son of 1 year old, since the day 1 of my marital status, she is making the issues at home by not maintaining the respect levels of my parents and me, and she doesn’t obey the husband words, she talks according to their parents wish, Now I has been 2 years of married life, we both have come across many times with their family and relations getogether. Every on has accepted saying that her mistake. pls give a chance this time, so she will be alright now, but again she plays the same drama after few days, and now she and her parents are talking in a legal process,,
Here are the few mistakes happened with me are,, When ever she argued with me, I looses my temper and I had been on the action of hitting her, some times its in a cruel way also, and with bad words used by me, but , she creates that situation, One time She has tried suicide attempt also, taking the blade and rushing in to a washroom. I stopped her behaving more cruelly, now they are taking that advantage of this situations, when getogether meetings happened even we discussed this all scenes also, and they all convinced her saying that’s her mistake and their parents also , When we got her back all these times , I have warned her very strictly saying that, if your going to repeat this again it would be the worse than ever So u decide and say what is ur decision, and after she accepts and say willingly that she wont repeat these scenario then I got her back to home. But she repeated the same, now it’s been almost 4 times in 2years, and now she has crossed her limitations and talking in her own way, saying won’t obey anyone’s words of your family and you. And their parents are also in the same way from the starting onwards. And I heard that they are preparing themselves to go with the Mahila mandal process, one of her relation member is a member of this organization. And her father has little bit of high end person’s support from his official business persons.
Now I am totally fed up with her and her parents, and I don’t want to live together and she and her parents also shows the same feelings from their side. My parents are innocent and we don’t have any kind of persons known regarding these type of issues and they are under mental depression.
!) She has one eye evidence, when She has tried suicide attempt, I slapped her; there is a guest at our home at the same time, But she don’t know where he stays and what his name is. Still, Can they track him?
2) If they go under legal actions, what all the ways they treat me and my parents.
3) How should I proceed to take the divorce, and get my son back from her?
4) What kind of action I can take in this period,.
My parents are thinking to have one more time of getogether discussion with them and their relations. But this time I am not guaranteed that she would be maintaining her attitude in a good way.
