I am 41 years old female, married for 13 years. I used to like my husband before marriage and we married under the consent of our parents. My in-laws house and my mother's house is close by. From the very beginning of my marriage, my mother-in-law has tortured me verbally, got the entire family against me, use to fault find etc. MY husband used to play diplomatically and never actually resolved any issues. My father-in-law and Husband"s sister are completely on mother-in-law side.
5 years back my sister-in-law got married to a Christian (we are Hindus) and despite having a separate house, she and her husband are living with my in-laws (Reason: they got a daughter who is looked after by in-laws and they both go to work). I am a strict vegetarian (in fact now turned vegan). They started bringing non-veg and cooking non-veg in the house, I protested and was asked to leave the house. My husband and I, later on, moved to separate rental premises and lived there for 2 years.
After 12 years of marriage, I got pregnant and had left the job to look after the baby, my husband financially being weak went back to his parent's house. I had no choice but to live in my parents house. Today, my child is almost one year and there is still no sign of my in-laws budging from their position. My sister-in-law and her husband continue to stay with my in-laws. My husband is also staying with them.
Even if anyone advises me to go back and stay with them, I want to state that there is no intention of theirs to let me stay there. There will be blame games by the mother in law and sister in law and will mentally harass me. I am not able to eat or drink in the house because of non-veg.
I am not interested in saving my marriage anymore cause of my husband behaviour of shoving of the responsibility. How should I protect my son rights?