@jaswant aka arjun
u had talked about commercialisation of marriage.so i gave u examples of how larke wale have commercialised it.
since u have closed ur eyes to this harsh reality and dont want to accept it,u started talking of other things like false cases,etc to divert the issue.
in india non-dowry seekers are so few,that a gal may suprass her marriageable age to find one.now dont say that gal shud remain spinster till she finds non-dowry seeker.
this means u accept that dowry seekers are so many in number.
can i ask u,why u r advising gals not to marry dowry demanders?
why dont u change ur stand and instead educate all men never to demand dowry so that gals dont have problems selecting good grooms?
This generation of girls especially those who are working seeks more freedom, hates to stay at home, does not like to mix up with the boy's family, does not like to do even 1 household task, does not want children
exactly! i agree.many gals are spoiled nowadays.but who asks you to look for career minded gals who have long working hrs.?
u guys and ur parents in metros specially look down upon housewives,because bringing a non-working bride will lower ur reputation in society.u call them BEHENJIS.
u want an earning member who brings home a fat salary which ur mums can take each month.when u bring home a bride who's working for 10 hrs.,dont expect her to be a sati-savitri who will be like a machine who never gets tired after work,who will never want an independent life,who will never say NO to u.
in other words u are looking for indian sanskars in a westernised wife whom u choose urself.so you are responsible for messing up ur own life.
i have personally encountered such larke wale who were adamant that they want a working wife and dont want their DIL to sit at home.
so if u want an indianised wife who serves u all,then look for a housewife.otherwise stop complaining!
OH C'mon who asks for dowry when a boy and his family are earning a decent income?
yes IAS officers,IIT engineers,doctors,CAs etc.
if u fail to accept this fact also,u dont belong to india.u live in a secluded island,unable to accept the reality of indian marriages.