Elder brother is being harassed by his wife

You have taken the best decision of making them stay away from you people.

 

The more interaction with those people, you and your parents will be in trouble.

 

As far as the nephew angle is concerned, it is upon mutual understanding that how often the nephew is allowed to visit you guys.

 

Here your SIL does not want to keep in touch with you folks at all, and you guys have to live with this fact and stay away so that your brother has a peaceful married life and also for the peace of mind of old age parents.

 

At this age if she somehow is successful in getting registered a DP complaint then all of you will be in jail.

 

Stay away from bad people is a old adage.

 

As I have seen in-laws whoever it is, play a very important role in breaking or making of a marriage.

 

Hope you have understood my point here.

 

Your Sister-in-Law does not want you folks to interfere at all. Period.

 

Rest your brother is quite mature to handle his wife.

If she is not working. Better She can go for Work or Studying.

The main reason for this quarrels are people have plenty of leisure time and watch mega serials and movies.

The moment people are busy with Work such as going to office, cooking, etc... where is the time for quarrels and gossips.

Idleman's brain is devils Workshop.

Correctly said. But she does not want to work because she is not competent enough. she is not even 10 pass which we came to know after marriage. We had been told that she is a 12th pass.

Still this not the case. Her mind set is not in positive direction. I have seen less qualified persons are also employed or do something else for their self dependency.

She only wants money to fulfill her needs from his husband. This is the only relation she shares with her husband.

Unfortunately our law is always in womens favour. We have become helpless. Always threat of PS prevails. 

Please suggest a legal process or again if she approaches PS what should be our course of action. Is there any precautionery measure to this. Because it becomes an embarrasment for my family and they are very scared PS.

 

 

Helping hand is scaring the husband side. Good job. Santosh, regardless of what you, your brother and parents do, sooner or later she will file false cases on your whole family. Don't be scared, you all have to deal with it. Y

Thank you so much.. In that I would require help of u all.. Please be with me at that moment.. Hope that day never comes..

Concentrate on your studies rather than concentrating on your babhi's lifestyle.  Sooner or later you too will have one, then use all your intelligence on how to handle wife and can come to this forum also to seek redressal.

 

Idle mans mind is devils online forum :-))