Divorce needed

Persuade her to get a mutual divorce because going by the facts you've stated you will not be able to prove desertion and it will be very difficult for you to prove cruelty. Divorce proceedings might take years. So persuade her for mutual divorce if possible.

Pradeep Verma, Advocate Allahabad High Court, 7607204177

thanks Mr. Bhuvan. i already sent her legal notice through lawyer. Now want to know whether my case will be succeed in court on the basis of cruelty as her behaviour is follows:

1) Always made me feel inferior on the basis of not having own car, house, not eating outside frequently, no outing on every weekend.

2) Try to commit suicide in the bus by tighting dupatta around her neck. Always speak about suicide and about her life got wasted due to marriage. Dashing forehead with hands during journey in the bus

3) Made whole drama on her bday by crying, yelling outside window as my brother could not attend her cake cutting. Called her parent home on being angry on her on this issue.

4) always taking negative, suicidal tendencies and mentally torturing me every time.

5) always tells me about how my parents are bad and insists on leaving them and be with her parents. Makes a scene every time when I want to go to my parents home at native.

6)  Calls her parents at home on every small issues and they also come immediately.

7) never buys any vegetables, grossary and never go outside to purchase day to day articles.

8) mood swings in her immediately from happy to angry and to violent and then crying continuously loudly for 5 hours.

9) runs out of house and wn her brother slapped her then agains run from there and called me to pick up her from one point. Her brother running behind her to search for her.

i dont think these are traits of normal behaviour. As this has given me a lot of mental torture during this initial period of 1 year of marriage.

Let me know your views on this case.

Just find a job at new location .Let her find you :)

PRACTICALLY -  you are divorced the time you think that you what to divorce her, relation works on basis of heart not on documents , But court work on documents and law is baised to favour women.

If you file divorce then she will file 498a/dv/125/hma maintenance , If you just move away then she will keep on thinking .

ask your parents to disown you and after 2-3 months you move to new location

Dear AS

I have got a feeling that whenever an aggrieved husband files or thinks of getting away from her wife, she by default thiks of filing DV / Dowry and others. I am not saying there are aggrieved wives as well but I think there is a need to amend the law. No one should be allowed the misuse of LAW.

Thanks,

JanDev

Dear AS

I have got a feeling that whenever an aggrieved husband files or thinks of getting away from her wife, she by default thiks of filing DV / Dowry and others. I am not saying there are not aggrieved wives as well but I think there is a need to amend the law. No one should be allowed the misuse of LAW, irrespective of gender.

Thanks,

JanDev

JanDecJanDec , I agree to what you said. 

But not sure if Govt understand or not.