DVC EXPARTE FINAL ORDER

Dear sir , I filled an divourse petition in dist court in oct 2010 and final order was given in july 2015 after trail , evidence , counceling etc Petition allowed and Family court given order i.e dissolving marrg and beir thier own costs . But My exwife wantedly to harrass me and she was filled an false cases in April 2015 on me i.e 498a & DVC . Both cases are running and in last month in DVC case ,court has been given final Exparte order i.e to pay 25000/- monthly from filling date & 300000/- complisation . I was not attended to court hearing due to , already i went to high court on interim maintaiannce and got an 50% i.e 5k pm maintainance with stay for all further proceedings and submitted in DVC case in the year of 2015 . 12 months i paid 5k pm and after that For payment she is not attending to court hearing and i also not attended court hearings due to judge has been transfered and giving dates by bench clerk . Now new judge has been came in oct 2016 and given exparte order with out mentioning the stay which was pending in high court now , no notice served to me that to attend court hearings for to file evidences , already i filled an written counter in 2015 as deneying all things which was msde in main siut of Dvc . How can i challenge this order and what releif i can get it pls share your valuable sugesstion