gsa (n/a) 05 August 2014

Court/arya samaj marriage

DEAR ALL PLZ HELP

OUR PARENTS WERE AGAINST OUR RELATION. SO I GOT MARRIED IN ARYA SAMAJ MANDIR IN GORAKHPUR ON SEP 2012. WE HIDE OUR MARRIAGE FROM ALL BECAUSE SHE GOT A GOVT JOB IN HER HOMETOWN GORAKHPUR. NOW I WANT TO BRING HER TO MY HOUSE. OUR PARENTS ARE STILL AGAINST US BUT THEY DONT KNOW ABOU OUR MARRIAGE.

I WANT THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO WHILE TAKING HER TO MY HOME IN LUDHIANA. I MEAN LEGAL THINGS SO THAT HER FAMILY CAN NOT TAKE ANY LEGAL OR ANY OTHER ACTION TO HARM ME OR MY FAMILY IN ANY MATTER. THEY CAN ATTACK ME OR MY FAMILY.

PLZ ALL ARE REQUESTED TO HELP.

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Laxmi Kant Joshi (Advocate ) 05 August 2014

Register your marriage in the sub registrar office , you both are major and free to take your decision , your marriage is a valid marriage, tell the truth to your families if they agitate or make any objection leave their home but remember don't fled from there collect some relatives from both side and your respected neighbour and talk in front of them they were used as a witness in future , if they threaten you or you have a life danger from them then inform it by making application to the sho police, ssp police and DM of your district, also engage a lawyer and get directions from high court to The police ssp and sho to provide protection to you both .

gsa (n/a) 05 August 2014

I AM AFRAID THAT IF I TELL THE TRUTH THEY WILL BLACKMAIL EMOTIONALLY THE GIRL. IT WILL BE DANGEROUS FOR ME IF SHE CHANGES HER STATEMENT EVEN SLIGHTLY.

WILL IT BE BETTER TO BRING HER SUDDENLY WITHOUT TELLING ANYTHING TO ANYONE?

WHAT WILL BE THE FURTHER PROCEDURE IF I BRING HER TO DELHI AND THEN TO CHANDIGARH HIGH COURT FOR REGISTRATION OF MARRIAGE? HOW MUCH TIME WILL IT TAKE TO GIVE ME LEGAL MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE FROM COURT? WHAT POINTS SHOULD I CONSIDER REGARDING SAFETY ?