rshta
saiyad dost mohammad
(Querist) 11 January 2011
This query is : Open
Dear Sir/Madam
I would like to know your opinion on the following:
1.Rishta in a muslim family was proposed by girl father/mother/paternal uncle/ maternal uncle/maternal brother at boy home on june 2010 with some sweets and cash gift.
paternal uncle of girl is also a paternal uncle of boy and he is a mediator.
boy told this mediator that fix the date of marriage after i get leave from the job and this i will confrim you 10-15 days before, as boy works abroad.
2.in july 2010 brother/mother/paternal uncle/paternal aunty/paternal brother/maternal uncle went to girl house to confirm the rishta with some sweets and cash gift.
there the girls family put a small get together with some common relatives and fix the date then and there , the mediator hide the fact/request of boy told to him.
unaware of the fact the boy mother also give consent as all are relatives.
date of marriage was agree for the month of dec 2010.
some sweets and cash gifts are exchange there.
3.in nov brother of boy booked 29 railway tickects for marriage in dec 2010.
4.in nov girl father and mediator came to boy house to give invitation of girl's brother marriage in dec 2010.
and gift some cash.
5.in dec boy inform about his leave and return to his brother which is on very short notice ,unfortunately the return journey is on the date of marriage. brother of boy inform this to mediator
mediator confirm this with the boy through isd call.
mediator then told this to girl father, in return girl father along with girl maternal brother denied/reject/cancel the marriage by phone call even on the request/plea of boy mother to find out some other solution and do not reject/cancel the marriage proposal as preparation are going on and it also hurt all relatives, family and social circle.
the girl father and mediator ask boy mother to re exchange/settle cash gift which is accepted by boy mother and asked girl father to give his bank account number on this girl father threaten boy mother to sue in court and ask her to talk to mediator.
on asking bank account number from mediator he further threaten and put false allegations/blames and loose talks with boy’s mother on phone.
6.after hearing all this boy bother asked the mediator who is also his paternal uncle to come over to his/boy house to take back cash gift of girl father or provide girls father bank account number for cash gift settlement and please do not threat to his and boy's mother.
what are the possibilities of legal sue/case from boy's family side and from girl's family side?
Please provide your good suggestion/opinion on this matter.
Best Regards
