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marriage to a girl

(Querist) 20 January 2017 This query is : Resolved 
I want to marry a girl . She is of 18 as well as i am too. If it is not possible then we want to spend our life with each other but she is muslim and i am hindu . Its the main matter. What should i do to protect myslf as well as her to and what should i do so that the police are also in our support ?????
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
are you 21?

If if not the marriage will be illegal and when relations go sour you can land in rape charges alongwith the Pandit/Maulana who conducts marriage and friends relatives (attending marriage) as abettors of crime..
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
If you do not belong to same religion then marriage is possible only through court under Spl Marriage Act which is not going to happen as you are under age.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
If you conduct marriage through Pandit or Maulana then also marriage is illegal and the fate has already been explained to you.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
Living togather without marriage is itself a suicidal idea and you can land in rape charges when relations go bad.

In some cases court have also awarded maintenance. In any case the child born of such relation is entitled to maintenance.

Such relation at this age will be serious dent to matrimonial prospect of both of you.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
AT THIS STAGE YOU MAY NOT AT ALL BE AGREEING THAT THE RELATIONS WILL EVER GO BAD.

you may be able to argue at length with anyone on earth

BUT BUT BUT

RELATIONS GETTING BAD IN MARRIAGE / LIVING TOGETHER IS A RELATIVITY.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017


We have seen such marriages in movies in cinema.

but you never knew that

a. in movies the actors speak scripted dialogue after rehearsal.

b. if action/dialogue is not ideal then there is retake.

c. for doing this they are paid in lakhs for shooting for few hours..

d. even if they have to survive as a couple without society they have to do so only upto shooting hours. So they can live this short period even without income.

e. after shooting actors go home and live their real life.


f. they stand to lose nothing if someone wants to imbibe such artificial reel life and spoil his own real life. they had been doing so from the earliest hindi talkie "Achhoot Kanya"
rajeev sharma (Expert) 21 January 2017
Dear Prince Charming you are under age for marriage. Concentrate on planning your life at least for three years. Marriage is not just an enjoyment but brings responsibilities also. Be worthy of bearing that burden. If your relation survives that period then come back to us and we will certainly guide you .
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 21 January 2017
Legally you can not marry at this age, can not live together without marriage.

Better plan / arrange / build / secure your life and career first.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
In Ancient Days and Even before Independence the Marriages were taking place at the teen age itself.But Now Legally it is Prohibited.If Both of yours Love is Genuine you should Wait.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Honorable Additional Sessions Judge (ASI) Darmesh Sharma of City Courts Delhi had rejected the Plea from Police and Delhi Commission for Stating that POCOSA Act Prohibits Minors from being involved in any Kind of sexual Activity.Honorable Judge also had stated that such an interpretation would mean that the body is State Property until the Age of 18 and that such an interpretation would mean no individual below 18 years can be allowed to have pleasures with one's body.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
It was also said by the Honorable Judge That where a Physical relationship undertaken with a minor girl-- which is neither sexual assault nor has consent being taken by unlawful means--No Offence said to have been Committed.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
In this the Case where a 15 years girl eloped with a 22 years boy/man.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
In your Case Only Legal Registered marriage will not be Permitted and Living together should be Permissible.Consult A Local Good Senior Advocate of your Place.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Living together is Better than going for extreme steps on disappointments.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 21 January 2017
living togather is sufficient to ruin life of both of you.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Mr.Sudhir Kumar Sir Do not Mistake me why you want to Curse the Innocent/young couple.Is there any disappointment in you Please.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Even many arranged marriages had ended in tragedy.Mr.Sudhir Kumar should Visit Family Courts.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Many Genuine Love marriages were grand Success,
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Marriage is Only a Legal binding.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Many Many Genuine Living together relationships were everlasting and more pleasant also
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Mr.sudhir kumar Imagine you were caught in a desert and there you find a young woman of your choice/expectation and there would you decide Living together or would wait for Legal Marriage to happen there.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
You should Bless the Innocent Young Couple Mr.Sudhir Kumar sir.
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 21 January 2017
This forum to provide advice which is legal and not which is based on emotion.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Anonymous Person who doesn't have his own details or address should not criticize like how he had Criticized Senior Experts/Advocates Shri Rajkumar Makkad and Shri J.K.Agrawal who were forced to stop Posting here by Insults by above Child Anonymous.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Real Experts would have Read the Decision of Honorable Judge of Delhi Posted here.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
With Out even Reading Fully and Posting and Posing as Expert with out any Identity Confirms their Illiteracy and Ignorance to the Peak
rajeev sharma (Expert) 21 January 2017
Mr Narsimha just for the sake of knowledge I would like to know if the judgment of add session judge form a precedent
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Is there any thing wrong in treating it as Citation.
rajeev sharma (Expert) 21 January 2017
If other courts rely on it then good. Other it is an interesting order
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Thanks Mr.Rajeev Sharma
Kumar Doab (Expert) 21 January 2017
You have been advised in detail.

Pls follow the advises.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 21 January 2017
Dear Mr. N.J.S.Rajkumar,

It is interesting order.
Ps share the link.
Guest (Expert) 21 January 2017
Thanks Mr.Kumar Doab


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