marriage related
archana baburao kadam
(Querist) 24 May 2016
This query is : Resolved
Hello sir,i am Archana, I am married 2 years ago,now I am only house wife my husband don't have permanent job he has doing as a guest lecturer in university as well as he has doing part time job as a principal in B. Ed college.I don't have child yet, my treatment is going on but my husband tourtured me physically as well as mentally for a child he confidently told me I never concive child, most important thing is his mobile, whole day use he his mobile, always online on whatsapp and hike and messanger,he never show me his mobile, when he chatting that time if I Gone near at him then suddenly he close his mobile,he never put his mobile normally,when he charged mobile at that time also he sitted beside mobile,one day I caught him,he chatting with woman, she is married woman, she have 1 child her husband Doing job other state she also teacher,i always caught her mesg, call details but my husband very sharply deleted her messages and call details in his mobile, when I ask him then he abusing me, he told me cheap minded,i don't have affair that woman, u blaming me.I always told him u don't interested in that woman then block her in social sites and block her calls,he said yes after some days as it is her mesg, calls came back when I ask about that then he replied I don't know how can come it,why u asking me, u ask that woman,i called that woman she said ur hubby called me so I also called him, don't abuse me go and ask ur husband,when I ask him, he told me u must believe on me, like that woman told like this... your husband call me, mesg me, and something because they they want our seperation u don't believe her just ignore it,i think yes he is correct but he always chating on hike when I ask him to whom u r chatting then he 5 min wasted time then he show his mobile when I see his mobile there is no friends online there r only 2 friends but always chatting on hike,one day when I checked his mobile then recent activities I seen,there r one mesg came on hike and it is hiding and that mesg was that woman, when I ask abt that he took his mobile suddenly and deleted and and say u lie there is no mesg on hike ur only bleming me, now I caught he called her I showing him and asked him then he deleted her number and denyed, sir I don't don't have to evidence to prove it,I decided file FIR against her it will ladge FIR against her or not , I called her and recorded our conversation she said ur husband called me, then change her statement myself called him ur husband not calling me, I know my husband daily called her but I don't have evidence how can I collect his call details,sir is am wrong,pls tell me what I do in this situation in legaly.pls suggest me
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 24 May 2016
No remedy of proceeding against that woman legally,when the culprit is UR husband.Is this his only weakness or he is into some other aspects too.If UR husband is a habitual womanizer,then it is difficult to change him or else there are many avenues to change him.Are he elders of both the households aware of all these things? If so better opt for mediation and counselling.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 27 May 2016
Try to take help of mediation and counselling or professional psychiatrist if he agrees.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 29 May 2016
Chatting on mobiles or social media network cannot be termed as any offence.
Are they into any extra marital relationship and do you have any substantial proof to prove your allegations, if yes then you can proceed with a divorce case on the grounds of adultery but a criminal case from your side is not maintainable because there is no provision in law for that.
If you dont like to continue the married life due to this you may decide about it but please be aware that mere talking or chatting in mobile with another woman by your husband cannot be termed as an adulterous act and it cannot be termed as an offence too, so any step to be take by you or intend to take shall be a futile effort and you may have to bear the brunt for this.
Be cordial with your husband and convince him to discontinue such habits and be loyal only to you but this depends on how you behave with him and react to his cordiality after that.
advocatepassy@gmail.com 971794
(Expert) 12 June 2016
It is for you to decide, if you do not want to live him him, leave him and go back to your parents
advocatepassy@gmail.com 971794
(Expert) 12 June 2016
It is for you to decide, if you do not want to live him him, leave him and go back to your parents
archana baburao kadam
(Querist) 19 June 2016
No... I don't want to leave him, that's why I ask u solution sir. ... I don't want to spoil my marriage..
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