for marrige
zeaul rehman
(Querist) 01 May 2016
This query is : Resolved
Dear sir
Mera name Zeaul Rehman hai ,mai 19 years ka hun our mai Muslim hun , our meri girlfriend 28 years ki hai our WO Hindu cast ki his ,humdono ek dusrese bahut pyar karte hai our humlog sadi bhi karna chahte hai ,but mere ghar wale raji nahi hai our meri gf ke ghar walon ko hamare relation ke bare me pta nahi hai ,meri gf ke ghar wale uski sadi kahin our kardenge agar humne jaldi sadi nahi ki,but Indian law ke hisabse marriage ke lie boy ko 21 years our girl ko 18 years hona jaruri hai ,but sir humlog mera 21 year hone ka wait nahi karsakte hai ,so please sir hame koi rasta btaiye please sir pls ,reply soon
P. Venu
(Expert) 02 May 2016
Marriage is a responsibility; try to realize this simple fact of life,
sanjeev kumar goel
(Expert) 02 May 2016
I am fully agreed with Mr P.Venu. It is neither love nor affection its only your lust as after some time you will divorce your 9 years old wife. If you are really love your girl freind who is 9 years older than you then you you have to assure her future and security by adopting HINDU RELIGION so that you could not go for another marriage as per your Muslim religion. Your this action will also show your natural and sincere love and affection towards her that you really love her.
M V Gupta
(Expert) 02 May 2016
Mr. Rehman as u are a minor, u cannot enter into valid marriage.Best thing is to wait until u attain majority (21 years). Further as stated by expert Mr. Goel if u bear true love and affection for the lady,assure her that u will not divorce her after marriage (which is a very easy step under the Muslim law)by converting urself to Hinduism through the Brahmosamaj. Even after conversion u have to wait till u attain majority. Pl note what u are proposing is not approved by ur family and probably by the lady's family also. Hence to avoid any action by either of the family members, u should ensure that the marriage is not in violation of law. Otherwise u will be in serious trouble.
