My friend has problem with his wife
SRIDHAR B
(Querist) 20 June 2012
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
My Friend name is Madhav working as a Constable in AP Police. He got married one year back but his wife has Pregnency problem, she never get pregnecy because she has problem in her uterine. This was not intimated before marriage. Docters confirmed she never get pregnacy and she get severe pain when she get DATE.
This was intimated to her parents and last month she went her Father's home and Her Father is saying it is not his responsibility He need to take care of her.
But My Friend not interested to continue his life with her. Now she is thretening him that She will suicide and write the a sucide letter against him, His Father and Monther.
Now Friend JOb is Govt job he is totally confused what he need to do.
Her Parents and she not interested to leave him, they want to continue the relation. But he is not agree.
Could you please tell us what actions we need to take care.
1) He is Govt Employee.
2) He dont want continue the relation
3) She si threatening him now.
SRIDHAR B
(Querist) 20 June 2012
Dear Sir,
He wants to take divorce but it should not effect his job
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 20 June 2012
Your friend is wrong in its approach. If such a problem was not known to anyone before the marriage the wife can not be blamed for the same.
It is advisable that the treatment for the same be done by your friend.
Also, there are millions of couples who don't have natural born children. They can go in for adoption.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 20 June 2012
I dont think this is a ground for divorce...
but if it is proved that some fraud was played upon the boy at the time of marriage then the divorce can be granted but subject to the Legal Conditions as contained in HMA, 1955.
visit some local lawyer, mention him the detailed facts and proceed as per law.
Ajay Bansal
(Expert) 20 June 2012
No legal remedy is available for your friend, rather he can invite prosecution of himself along-with his parents, if he does not adjust his wife.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 20 June 2012
your friend is being immature .he should not divorce hsi wife merely because she is unable to conceive . you can go in for IVF treatment to have children . accept the wife
SRIDHAR B
(Querist) 20 June 2012
Dear Sir,
I explained all your valueble responses to him but he is not agreeing to continue with his wife. Could you please tell us if he go for divorce then what will happen to his family and his job, Can he get the Divorce from his wife.
Even he is not agreeing for Medical treatment.
Could you please give your valuable suggestions.
N.K.Assumi
(Expert) 20 June 2012
As rightly advised by the learned members it is not a ground for Divorce.Your friend can adopt or even go for sorrogacy.
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 20 June 2012
If the wife is unable to conceive, it is no ground for divorce. Such things are not known before marriage. What would your friend have done if the problem for not bearing children was found to be with him and not in his wife? Ask your friend to be mature enough to accept the situation. Instead of thinking of divorce, why not adopt some child and live happily?
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 20 June 2012
DEar Sridhar,
You have posted this query in favour of your immature and an irresponsible friend,who is of the opinion that a woman can be thrown out of life as and when desired.Better underline every word given in reply by the experts and show it to your friend.
SRIDHAR B
(Querist) 20 June 2012
Dear Sir/Madam,
I am not sure why he is strict to his decision. But He always telling even he is not thinking about Adoption or any other Medical process.
Even I wil not support for his thoughts and Plans.
He is asking only one question
"If he go for divorce then what will happen to his family and his job, Can he get the Divorce from his wife"
:( :( :(
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 20 June 2012
Then there is something fishy regarding him.As per my analysis the fault is with him and not his poor wife.He is just trying to encash from the advices from the experts and get rid of his wife.All through your query your concern is only regarding his family and job.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 18 November 2012
Marriage is not a quality control warranty that parents must test before marriage if the girl can conceive. I am surprise that you friend has not thought of going to consumer court.
from your account your friend is the type of person for whom statutes like Domestic Violence Act etc are framed.
He is GUILTY GUILTY AND GUILTY.
If not interested in dent on career he has to bend knees and forget ego.
His job will not be affected by the divorce because it will not happen. His job will be affected by the criminal case which he is fast inviting with hard work and girl side appear to be nice enough to give him chance.
Tell him one thing. Jail is hard life but more misery is there if a policeman is locked in with criminal who till yesterday he was apprehending.
