Suicide hints

Rehan Noor (Querist) 25 April 2012 This query is : Resolved
I am 20yrs old and in a gay relationship. My bf is 25 years old. He is extremely obsessed with me and I am very unhappy with him. But whenever I talk to him about parting our ways, he gives me a hint of suicide. I obviously dont want that to happen. He doesnt agree to see a counseller and I cant involve his family also as his family won't accept his sexuality (the stigma associated with Indian society). I feel so helpless. If I leave him and he commits suicide will I be responsible?
Please help!

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Kundan Kr. Singh (Expert) 25 April 2012
Helo Mr Rehan noor

lawyers club will not support you. This is a not a legal problem.
you can contact Dr. Prakash kothari and Dr. Chug.
Thanks.

Navaneetha Krishnan (Expert) 25 April 2012
yes you are right

Deepak Nair (Expert) 25 April 2012
Yes. There is no legal issues in this query.

VENKATESH HEGDE (Expert) 25 April 2012
Dear kundan sir Yes we are not the Doctors but it is not only the responsibility of the doctors. we will also extending our help to the needy people. Now a days these type of problems are rising. As per the law this type of relations have not a legal validity in indian system.
Mr Rehan Noor its a good thinking dont worry. you are not responsible if he commits suicide. Our indian legal system is not entertain such relation. you bring notice to his family, & also take help of doctors. make him correct.

M.Sheik Mohammed Ali (Expert) 25 April 2012
best thing is go for psychiatric adviser

ajay sethi (Expert) 25 April 2012
consult a psychitarist . i n addition there are in every city local gay support groups . contact them

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 25 April 2012
It is a sheer emotional blackmailing. If you are unhappy with the relationship, you change your location urgently. Nothing will happen. You have to live in your own way. You should not blackmailed by the person who come into contact with you.

prabhakar singh (Expert) 25 April 2012
He will not commit suicide.

Go far away from him without informing him.

you need not talk about it with his family members.

Sankaranarayanan (Expert) 25 April 2012
Just inform to his parents or ur other frd to communicate these problem.and take advise from the doctor

SAINATH DEVALLA (Expert) 25 April 2012
His is a psychological disorder or pretending to act in that manner.What's your assesment of him during the period of your friendship?Did you ever find him mentally imbalanced?If no,then he is only blackmailing you and nothing else.That makes a lot of sense.Though a legal forum,I always try to make the quriest comfortable with my answers and councelling.Noithing wrong in it.

Observe him from close quarters for some more time and come to a conclusion.

Whatever it is your relationship is not welcome and try to amend yourself.