seeking legal help - gay husband

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 12 September 2010 This query is : Resolved
i am married for 25 yrs ( married at 15 age ) with husband 10 years older to me. married life was never good and husband never interested in me. husband encouraging me to go with others . i was mentally disturbed with this kind of attitude of husband. never got physical with any one else as i was religious. son is in abroad. now i have come to know my husaband is gay ( audio proof) and caught red handed.husband highly placed in govt service. i am totally disturbed and not able to cope with life and left home. please advise options for my life as i am a simple house wife. my husband still ants to be with me but i am not able to cope as i am going thro hell. Can the marriage be declared void as i was underaged at the time of marriage or i should seek divorce on mutual consent. husband not inetersted in going to court as he is highly placed in society. please help

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s.subramanian (Expert) 12 September 2010
Your husband's present sexual behaviour itself is a valid and strong ground for divorce. Proceed to seek divorce.

Parthasarathi Loganathan (Expert) 12 September 2010
Involve all your in-laws and apprise these facts before you set out for legal divorce.

s.subramanian (Expert) 12 September 2010
Yes.That is also a good idea.

G. ARAVINTHAN (Expert) 12 September 2010
Mr.Parathasarathi is not much practical. All in laws may not come to settle as they too pretty old.

Better to issue a legal notice and a case for maintenance before filing case for divorce. Your husband will surely come for a settlement

Parthasarathi Loganathan (Expert) 13 September 2010
What I meant to state is the fact that this attitude of the male must be made known to his relative and friends circle so that such marriages do not repeat as there is every chance that concealing this information the male might go for another marriage to spoil the life of another female. That was my prayer which, though appear impractical, but surely pragmatic for social cause.