Me and my lover get married without families now my par
Samriti
(Querist) 31 December 2017
This query is : Resolved
I m of 20 and my husband of 65 we were in relationship and got marry without families now my parents r harrasing me and blackmailing me tht they will harm my husband we truly love each other we want to live together how can i i also want to file a complaint against my parents because they tried to harm him and can anytime we want protection law protection
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 31 December 2017
Is this a joke? You 20 married 65 man are you serious? Was his wealth the attraction for this marriage?
As a married couple no one can harm you and anyone troubling, report it to local police. Keep the marriage certificate always ready with you to show to authorities as and when required.
Guest
(Expert) 31 December 2017
Who compelled you not to file a complaint against your parents with the police? Thankless children can be expected to do anything against their parents.
By the way, with this ideal match of 20:65, if you bear a child girl and at the age of 15 she selects an old man of 85 as her husband, what would be your own reaction on that event?
Guest
(Expert) 31 December 2017
Congratulations on your happy marriage. Perhaps Mr. Dhingra has raised some odd question for you. But never mind, you may perhaps have the befitting answer for that also. Must reply that question.
By the way, as you stated, your parents are harassing and blackmailing you, can you state, what tactics they are using to blackmail you?
Also, that would give more clarity to your problem, if you describe some of the extraordinary qualities that could attract your and compel you to marry that oldy of 65, when you are merely of 20?
Of course I am fully convinced about your capability to convert your academic problem very smartly in to a personal problem.
N.K.Assumi
(Expert) 31 December 2017
Congrats, why worry about your family members. Marriage is for your happiness not their happiness, and Love is just like a magic, it does not know the age/caste or tribe etc, and it just change you and your entire environment, placing you on top of the world. If they harass you just file a complaint to the police and put them behind bars. .
kavksatyanarayana
(Expert) 31 December 2017
As you are a major, it is your will to marry as you wish. But, do you know whether he is a bachelor/having wedded wife/widower/divorcee? however may God bless you.
Guest
(Expert) 01 January 2018
No worry, don't take it so serious. No need even for any legal recourse of police complaint. Eat drink and be merry till both of you are fed up and become ready for dv or divorce (as may be destined some day).
Best of luck !
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 01 January 2018
Best wishes to the newly "wedded" couple praying for a long happy married life, do not get perturbed and worried over the misbehaviour of your parents.
You must reply them (blackmailers) in their own coin, which you are fully aware, being their own spoiled child.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 01 January 2018
Some times love makes the tricks. As far as I''m concerned in my opinion marriage between such huge age disparity Marriages where husband is much older than wife young enough to be his grand daughter happen out of blind love. Probably she is expecting fatherly love from him so that he would pamper her for everything. Not necessarily wealth. As suggested above carry your marriage certificate along no police or none of his wife's immediate birth relations wouldn't do any harm to them. Or you can apply to a court for
Police security round the clock for some time till the threat of harm goes away.The girl may be suffering from Electra complex or father fixation where she would like her husband to be akin to her father.Opposite to Oedipus complex or mother fixation is Electra complex and a person with Oedipus complex wants the wife to be like his mother.in everything.
Guest
(Expert) 01 January 2018
Ms. Usha Kapoor's observation seems to have any relevance. When the author of the (seemingly fake) problem damn care for her own father, where is the question of the revolting daughter in expecting fatherly love from his so called fatherly fiance?
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 01 January 2018
Related true life love marriages with huge age disparity on the bridegroom side stories I've read in several English Magazines.These stories were for real. Couple's photographs also were published in some English Magazines some 30 years ago.
P. Venu
(Expert) 01 January 2018
As validly married couple, you can certainly seek protection of law.
