Women need to apply divorce
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Anonymous
(Querist) 28 May 2017
This query is : Resolved
Hi Members,
Im a bold , confident , independent women who dreams to achieve big in life . I have been married for 1 year . The person who married is low in confidence , low in self esteem but highly diplomatic to prove others that he is good . I got to know this when we started to talk before marriage , we had 6months time before marriage . I said to my parents they convinced me stating that he is our relative , good one and all those useless words and more over my mum was sick at that time , which cornered me , which left no other options other than to marry him . Lot of things he created trying to bring me down . He gives a mental pressure and at times he even locks door and leaves to office so that I can't go to office. He some times even says that I will give divorce and some times he won't . To be frank i don't even feel manly with him , trust and love is the core in a relationship which I don't get on him . I feel im wasting my time in this relationship. i dont like to stay with him and I know there no one with 100% compatibility but unable to imagine a future with with this type of personality .There is no compatibility in our relationship .Now we both are working and staying separately for almost 4 months. I stay in my parents home . My mum and sister supports me but my dad doesn't . I truly accept that from his stand point it's hard to accept .
But I dont want to continue this relationship. But he wants to create problems for me. Neither pretends to all that he wants to stay with me and he is ready to go for mutual divorce. It is a mistake from my end , I must have stopped it before my marriage itself .
But now in that case what should I do and how long my divorce case might take ?
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 28 May 2017
Im sorry myself Esther , by mistakly I have posted as anonymous . Please guide me
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Anonymous
(Querist) 28 May 2017
Send one please help me
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Anonymous
(Querist) 28 May 2017
Send one please help me
Kappil Cchandna
(Expert) 28 May 2017
Mam,
In order to have the contested divorce, you have to prove your case on one of the grounds as per law, mere incompatibility is no ground for divorce.
Warm Regards
Kapil Chandna Advocate
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Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 May 2017
No reply to query from an author who is anonymous.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 May 2017
so far the only fact given is maltreatment on the basis of which you could get divorce, if he contests.
But you created no evidence.
You said that he locks you in the house and leaves. In such case have you ever dialed 100 and called police and got the door broke open. Or the police would have called him from office and got the door unlocked. The police would have either arrested him or got a written compromise.
You also want a divorce and you also do not want create problem. First you have to decide what you want.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 30 May 2017
Pure hypothetical academic time-pass question for debate by an anonymous author who subsequently mentioned adoptive and imaginary name as, "Esther". No reply.
However, if there is truth in the story you must contact, consult and engage a local prudent lawyer for proper analyses, guidance and proceeding.
Guest
(Expert) 30 May 2017
A bold , confident , independent women who dreams to achieve big in life, but prefers to remain in hide.
May be you have subsequently mentioned your name as "Esther" but still you are anonymous as nothing can be confirmed without access of your profile, having posted your original query as "anonymous".
AS SUCH, I ENDORSE THE VIEWS OF DR. J.C.VASHISTA.
If posted mistakenly as anonymous​, post a fresh query with your real profile name.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 31 May 2017
Thank you Dhingra ji for endorsing my view.
Guest
(Expert) 31 May 2017
You are welcome, Dr. JC Vashista. Right & frank person, with no spicy statement to please the querist, is always right to be fully supported.
