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Wife took all her belongings with her and now she is blaming that i have her streedhan

Guest (Querist) 26 October 2016 This query is : Resolved 
thanks for accepting me as a part of your group.. respected members, my wife has filed a case against me in caw cell,she is very beautiful and i am just ordinary looking, i dont know still why she agreed to marry me, she never allowed me sex, but i never felt bad, she said she is shy.. but after 1 year when i asked her we should have a baby now.. she started fighting and then slowly she took all her jewellery back to her home saying she will wear them in her friends marrage.. after than she dint came back home. when i went to her home, her mother insulted me saying my daughter wants divorce and ask ur parents to give us 30 lakhs.else will file a case against you... now the case is under caw, she has given a false streedhan list , even more than her original jewellery and i have no proff that she took the jewellery back to her home during her time to time visit.. what shall i do.. plz guide me
Guest (Expert) 27 October 2016
Primarily, yours seems to be an academic query rather than a problem.

However, if no proof, no escape. But, still she or her parents will have to prove what they gave for her daughter, as streedhan.

If you are really facing such a problem, for a solution, you may send complete details through email at: sssfi2016@gmail.com
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
Thank you sir I will mail you the details today
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
Thank you sir I will mail you the details today
Guest (Expert) 27 October 2016
You are welcome.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 27 October 2016
If s*x was denied them marriage was consummated.


It is ground for divorce.

Consult a very able counsel at your location specializing in family/such/civil matters.
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
i dont know why she denied s*x, but she was not happy to come near me.. again i never found any flaw in her character, but still god knows what her issue was... later on when i asked her that we should make a baby, she said first she will become a team leader in the company she works with and then she will plan kid.. this was the reason of our clash... and then very cleverly she took her jewels back home... now i have applied rti to get the caw cell compaint against me... once i get that. after that my family will decide what to do next.... either ask old age relatives to go to her house to settle this or in case they dont listen to them, then we will have to fight legally...
Kumar Doab (Expert) 27 October 2016
If matter can be resolved with intervention of elders, nothing like it.
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 27 October 2016
Under the given circumstances, discuss all aspects with local lawyer.

If FIR lodged, try for anticipatory bail.

Ask her from where, when, how the claim stridhan was purchased by her / her parents.
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
thanks again for your replies, yes will try level best to resolve with elders, but i have doubt coz i have seen lust of money in her attitude and in case she go to court, my only question is, she took her jewels saying she will wear them in her friends marriage, then she never brought them back to my home... in her streedhan list, she is asking them again... she 100 % will generate get the bills from a relative who is a jeweller near to her home.. even back dated bills...now i am unlucky that i have no proff that she took her jewels to her home... only god can save me
Kumar Doab (Expert) 27 October 2016
As suggested by Expert Mr. Rajendra K Goyal: Under the given circumstances, discuss all aspects with local lawyer.
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
right sir.. thanks
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 27 October 2016
Your statement would be difficult to prove that she had taken all her stridhan items. You can give evidences in your support for this also.

In my opinion beginning from start how / when / from where / who bought these claimed items may fetch better results.
Guest (Querist) 27 October 2016
thankyou again sir..lets see but i am very afraid at the moment. i asked a lawyer all this but he is not my official lawyer, he is just a known person to family, he said , if wife produce bills in court, then you have to pay for her jewels again. i earn around 22000 per month and my parents pensions, i am in lot of stress. my hope here was that i read somewhere in internet that wife needs to prove that her streedhan is in matrimonial home and again she never maintained a list of her articles ... leaving all on grace of god now
Kumar Doab (Expert) 27 October 2016
Expert Mr. Rajendra K Goyal has again advised you what to do.


Discuss all aspects with local lawyer specializing in family/such matters.




LCI Expert Mr. Shonee Kapoor has started an initiative for such matters.

If you wish you may check with him.

He might be at your location.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 27 October 2016
Agree with the advice from expert Kumar Doab.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 27 October 2016
Is it the same query at;


http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Can-wife-ask-maintainance-if-she-is-highly-qualified-and-husband-is-very-less-qualified--621281.asp
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 27 October 2016
If you have subsequent question on a query, do not start new thread.
M V Gupta (Expert) 28 October 2016
From all your postings the nature of the complaint filed by ur wife is not clear.If she is not disputing her marriage to u she cannot complain that her jewellary is in ur house.Please check whether she had filed domestic violence complaint against u in which she mentioned about the jewellary. If it turns out that the complaint is DV u should immediately take steps to obtain anticipatory bail from court.
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 28 October 2016
Author need to clear the query from expert M V Gupta.
Dr J C Vashista (Expert) 29 October 2016
The author has concealed his identity under the adopted name "Trying to Fight" for an imaginary and hypothetical question paper set for examination of the candidates (not experts) on this platform.

Same question paper was set earlier in his previous post as researched and digged out by expert Sh. Kumar Doab under the heading "Can wife ask for maintenance if she is highly qualified and husband very less qualified.621281.asp "

The author did not have sex with his wife for 1 year and continued relation??

She never allowed sex and author never felt bad/objected for about a year??

The wife is beautiful and author is "ugly" looking even than married??

The wife took away all jewelry/costly articles when she left for her home, a bald statement without any evidence??

Pure academic repeated question paper, an abuse of the site.
Kumar Doab (Expert) 29 October 2016
Discuss all aspects with local lawyer specializing in family/such matters.
Guest (Querist) 29 October 2016
sir hiding my identity is just so that under the current circumstances i dont want myself to come directly on net, coz this is my first time on ur site and it takes time to generate trust.. about spending time with her even when she was not ready for sex is coz its not that easy to do kalesh in a family just coz wife is not doing sex... further mom and dad are old age, so i was doing compromise just to avoid tensions to them... now i know i need a lawyer and i will get 1.. but sir today most lawyers try to cheat, so i was just trying to gain some knowledge.. i am again sorry about strating a new thread, but sir under my current mental state i was not able to read all rules of this site.. my main motive is or was ,,, god plz help me with some person who can advise me... under this i tried to ask the experts advise... thankyou sir
Guest (Querist) 29 October 2016
The wife took away all jewelry/costly articles when she left for her home, a bald statement without any evidence?? ----- sir i know and its just that i am unlucky.. i trusted her.. but here you are talking like her lawyer will talk.. but sir honestly i am unlucky , when she left home at night, she said she will wear the jewels in her friends marraige, i can try and get the pics of that marraige party, but again not sure coz its her friends marraige party, so it will be difficult to get pics... this might be my only evidence... but again if this is not enough.. yes i cant prove that she took.. and what ever will happen i will accept it as pert of luck
Guest (Querist) 29 October 2016
moreover if i had evidence , why would i come here to ask for help? i am true on my part sir
Kumar Doab (Expert) 29 October 2016
LCI Expert Mr. Shonee Kapoor has started an initiative for such matters.

If you wish you may check with him.

He might be at your location.


You can also go thru his dedicated articles, citations, judgments etc.



Kumar Doab (Expert) 29 October 2016
There are many dedicated sites to such matters.

There are dedicated forums for harassed husbands.Search and go thru these.




While you do everything and ,rather even before, approach a very able counsel so that you are able to defend your interest.




You are grossly wrong when you declare "today most lawyers try to cheat".



There are a plenty that have unshakable integrity and reputation.



Go out, Do our own hard work, and check, and find out a very able counsel tom defend your interest ASAP.













Kumar Doab (Expert) 29 October 2016
Taking away family jewels is just the beginning.

Other and many hardships might be waiting.


If separation is only possibility left, then try for MCD, get separated, and be at peace.



Apply your own judgment.


Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 29 October 2016
Agree with the expert Kumar Doab.
Guest (Querist) 29 October 2016
thanks sir.. i will try my best & yes all fingers are not same
Kumar Doab (Expert) 29 October 2016
You are welcome.

Wish you the best.


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