Wife files for DV and RCR against husband's divorce file

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 24 August 2016 This query is : Resolved
I Have been married for since November 2014. My husband is in a aviation company. He is a security executive in ground staff and earns 25k/month.
Right after our marriage my husband stopped me from study and almost locked me in the house and he told me to not to go out and keep doing house works from early morning to late night. He always listen to his two unmarried sisters and fights with me. His parents never say something to him and silently support him.
They all never like me to go to my parents home and also make issues if I talk to my mom over phone.
He have beaten he several time and abused many time in front of his parents.
After trying my best I called my father and came to my parents home.
2 times he came to take me with him and
Told me and my parents that "( I will not repeat it) AB NAHI KARUNGA". my parents sent me with him.
In Jan 2016 when he sent some of our honeymoon/ private photos to my brothers from my phone I left him and came to my parents and sand him a massage that never come back to me if you cannot change your behaviour and switched off my phone.

Till today he never admitted guilty. All my in-laws say please come everything will be all right but I know nothing will change in till my husband change so My parents and me strictly denied from sanding me with him unless he change his behaviour.

Now after 7 months of separation instead of changing his behaviour he has filed for divorce on the ground of cruelty of wife under section 13 and sand a sammon to me I went to court and I gave application of 24 and asked for time to reply (which I have got).

I want to live a happy life. I want him to change his behaviour towards me.
I am a post graduate and have done BA-BED and easily can become a second grade teacher. But he doesn't like me to go out from house even though his 2 unmarried sister are doing private jobs and study also.

I have done DV and RCR(9HMA) case on him. But I didn't apply for 498a. I will use 498a later and leave him if didn't change his self.
Please suggest the right step for me?

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Ms.Usha Kapoor (Expert) 25 August 2016
Apply for divorce on the ground of cruelty and Unsoundness of mind such as incurable psychopathic disorder and if he refuses to go for such tests under Evidence Law an adverse inference can be drawn against him by the court that he is actually suffering from incurable psychopathic disorder.. That man, your husband appears to be a Psychopath, who is very violent in Disposition and they test positive when MRI Scans and Blood Test are conducted on them by a team of mental Health experts. They can never change for they have no conscience. Psychopathy is not medically treatable nor these people can be reformed for lacking in conscience. They resort to spousal abuse out of frustration feeling inferiority complex etc on their part. File DV proceedings by staying in your parents house also you would get protection orders from the violence of your husband and in laws and , residential orders, compensation, custody of children if any. If necessary though court may put him in Jail pending DV proceedings. Leave him for good and try for a teacher job and start living and stop worrying for psychopaths never experience any true love and attachment for any body and in MRI scans they test neutral to emotions like love and attachments. Psychopaths suffer from anti social personality disorder and madly violent and born criminals. Outwardly they pretend love but they never truly love you,.. Leave him for good.Also invoke Section 498 A proceedings against your husband and in laws.

R.K Nanda (Expert) 25 August 2016
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Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 25 August 2016
Many thanks for the suggestion.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 25 August 2016
No reply to repeated query and query from anonymous author.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 25 August 2016
aq query is not replied here.
I would request Ms Kappor to stick to the unanimous decision fo experts here on this issue.

P. Venu (Expert) 25 August 2016
The long posting by the author suggests there is still scope for amicable settlement.Much of what you have stated is mere teething troubles. A counselling session could make the difference.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 25 August 2016
Anonymous is a wife fighting for a happy life. I sincerely thanks toMe. Usha Kapoor for the advice.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 25 August 2016
Please don't make issue of this. I am not going come here again. Thanks

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 26 August 2016
We dont attend the queries raised by the persons who dare to suppress their identity. If you are not ready to disclose even your name, we are also not obliging to attend you.

Wife files for DV and RCR against husband's divorce file

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